Easily the worst day of my life.

He still young, i mean YOUNG fucking... how old ?? 14? 15? Man just get as much play as you can right now. You will learn soon that many many girls will come and gone from your life, just pick out the one that you think going to be a wify and keep that one. As far for this girl, she is not worth it to keep, so just get as much play from her while you can, then say "NEXT". This is how girls are, I learned and you will too, when you meet your third one.

Why be in a relationship if you don't like the girl?

Guys need girls, that's a basic human need.

eh im doing a little better now, i followed my brothers option because i do like her but its definitly not the same, she was like "i want to hug you so much" and i just said alright, didnt even think about what she said or if i felt the same way, i definitly dont like her as much as I used to.... it will be fun and this way i wont come out of this relationship broken like i did before

So now you're using her? That's not necessarily fair to her, either.

I do like her its just not as strong as before.

I feel sorry for you man, it's just going to happen again, not any time soon, but it will happen again, I guarantee it.

I feel sorry for you man, it's just going to happen again, not any time soon, but it will happen again, I guarantee it.

The problem is that nobody knows what they want, and people easily become jaded.

that's why he got to be on top, when the next time she say " lets just be friends". You be like, that's fine. Like your brother said, get back together but don't get attatch.

He still young, i mean YOUNG fucking... how old ?? 14? 15? Man just get as much play as you can right now. You will learn soon that many many girls will come and gone from your life, just pick out the one that you think going to be a wify and keep that one. As far for this girl, she is not worth it to keep, so just get as much play from her while you can, then say "NEXT". This is how girls are, I learned and you will too, when you meet your third one.

Like I've said before that doesn't always apply. I've been with my girl since I was something like 12 years old and I'm 17 now. We haven't had any trouble at all besides a recent bump in the road that has now passed.

There's no reason why slaynish should just become some kind of woman user just because most girls are how you described. I'll admit, I got really really lucky, and I know that mine is a rare case, but doing stuff like you said could make you lose someone who you were really supposed to be with.

Yeah thats why im going to try to make it work. I like her, i really do, Its just not nearly as strong right now as it was 2 days ago because she has shown me what she can do to me if it becomse like that again.

ok, what I mean is of couse you will look out for girls that can be a wify, but in the mean time, when you like a girl like lauren, but you know there won't be any future with her. Why force yourself to not be together?

You guys make me sad......and you call yourselves men? She disrespected him....he should at least validate the point that SHE was the one who broke thign sup......he SHOULD HAVE made her chasing him around a little bit.

Now she feels validated because she knows she could get you back with ease, which will in the long run be a problem since she might just say "oh i can get him back anytime" and play around with other guys....you NEED to make her work to get you back....blah why do i waste my time......ur still young...go have fun do w/e u want

There's a reason she broke up with you. She didn't do it because someone else told her to. She wasn't pressured into it. That's a load of bullshit.

Yeah thats why im going to try to make it work. I like her, i really do, Its just not nearly as strong right now as it was 2 days ago because she has shown me what she can do to me if it becomse like that again.

Slay, you can't MAKE it work. It just has to happen. That crap about her being pressured into breaking up with you is a load. If she was able to get pressured into breaking up with you, she obviously didn't care about you much in the first place.

She or her friends thought she could do better. That's probably what it comes down to.

Im loving these deep-meaningful life-altering discussions on zelaron lately. LOL

Welcome to Life Discussion.

Thats why im having second thoughts.

Oh and KR, trust me, I can forgive her for making a stupid decision but its not like she asked just once, she had her friend call me, she told me how stupid she was, and how she wishes it never would have happened, if it wasnt for her saying that if she could she would 'go back' and change it i wouldnt have even considered getting back with her because well just to be blunt, I believe that her reason was a bs reason too. Im just trying my best to feel the same way for her but we arent trying hard enough obviously becuase I feel the same way. oh well whats done is done and if she wants to break up any time soon or even int he future im fine with that we are goign to go out to the movies this week or weekend and we'll see how it goes from there

So now you're using her? That's not necessarily fair to her, either.

No. He is clearly repairing the relationship, he boviously needs time.

"People don't change, never forget and never forgive."

One way of looking at it..