All men are pigs and/or manwhores. They have no standards and don't care about the emotional welfare of their significant other. They are motivated by teh sexx0rz.
Is this true of some, maybe a majority of men? Yeah. Is it true of all guys? Obviously not. To say that would be vastly ignorant, seeing as I do not know the personality of every man on earth.
Obviously the main point in life is usually sex. It's what guarentees our genetics passing on. While that is a direct motivation for a lot of things, not all people pursue it in the same direction.
Yeah, of course we want sex, but that doesn't mean it's the only thing we/I care about. I know for a fact my girlfriend and I won't have sex before we're married. If all I cared about was sex, I would not be with her seeing as how I won't get any. I compliment my girl everyday and she likes it. We've got a great relationship and just to throw this thread back on topic, she doesn't control me or try to. Hah.
Man, I had a relationship like that before. I was all about it while in it, but thinking back on it makes me realize how patient I was. I honestly think that relationships with sex are more fulfilling, but then again, that is just my opinion, having had the better of both.
I really don't see why waiting till then means anything....getting married dosen't make you love each other, its the result of love, same way should be with sex