Girl's process of thinking.
 

Listen to this.

I'm at the mall with a couple of my friend's paying off my tux for Prom. After that I go to this store called Spencer's Gifts. They've got a lot of funny ass shirts and perverted crap. Anyway, I bought an earring that had 69 in the stud.

I go over to my girlfriend's house after I get back to spend some time before the weekend is over. She sees the earring and freaks out. She said, "Now everyone is going to call me a slut!"

I'm like, "teh fux?" She says, "You bought an earring that has 69 in it, and because I'm your girlfriend people are going to think we have sex all the time and people will call me a whore and/or slut!"

...Ok? I'm keeping it but I won't wear it all the time. Anybody else have any experiences like this they're willing to share?

Well, my girlfriend told me that girls almost or rarely cum -_-!!!!

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

what? you reply to my post?

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Nah, she's not trying to control me. She's never done anything like that nor is she going to start. That's really what she thinks.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Well if she is hot she can probably get someone better so, you better tap that ass.

I really hate when you don't even do anything remotely related to them and they get pissed at ya. It is soo gay.

What also seems to be the case, in my school at least, is that girls with boyfriends tend to be really selfish. They think that the guy is gonna automatically cheat on her if hes with another girl at ALL. One of my friends gf is like this. She wont let him hang out with ANY other females. I hate that whore.

I think maybe she's being a little paranoid, but if the earring makes her feel bad or uncomfortable maybe it's best to not wear it around her. It's not a totally insane request. However, if she gets weird or overprotective about other things and it interferes with your normal interests or social life you have a problem. But I wouldn't sweat it about an earring.

I feel ya, hot girls want to get guys that don't show interest... its a game they have to win

I actucally like it when girl in control, it gives you challenge, if you ontop of your girl on everything... you will cheat on her, cuz you get bord of her so quickly.

That's what's happening to my girl, first it feel so good to get her, I do everything, take her out, wait for her. I feel good actually after I done those stuff... now she listen to me on everything... I get so bord of her now, I almost even get tire of having sex with her, that's how bad it is.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

I agree with that. Me and my girlfriend will have something to look foward to when we get married(sex, of course).

Then maybe my girl is different because she's not at all like that. :P

These things will happen. Girls will be girls. She doesn't want her reputation to be ruined.

Sadly that's true, but it's usually because they have bad lovers. Guys think of sex as more of a physical thing than a mental thing, and women are the exact oposite. You've gotta tell her you think she's sexy and talk to her during sex and yada yada, not just try to get your jollies off.

What the fuck do you mean by "let her know who's the male"? Neither one of them should be controlling each other. Don't stereotype women just because you've had bad experiences, they don't all try to control you, my girlfriend NEVER tries to control me, and I don't try to control her. Going on 3 years now.

That attitude is what is keeping you from having good relationships. If you go into a relationship "knowing" that she's going to control you and be evil and all, it's not going to work out.

I'm guessing the same thing, my girl is nothing like shinto seems to think all girls are like.

There's nothing wrong with keeping up the pace as long as both partners are OK with it, if you get bored then the relationship isn't going to work out anyway, that's what marriage is all about.