Yeah, of course we want sex, but that doesn't mean it's the only thing we/I care about. I know for a fact my girlfriend and I won't have sex before we're married. If all I cared about was sex, I would not be with her seeing as how I won't get any. I compliment my girl everyday and she likes it. We've got a great relationship and just to throw this thread back on topic, she doesn't control me or try to. Hah.