So there's this girl, Jenn, that I met a couple of months ago.
We've become really good friends.
I like her... a lot. She brings out a side of me that I really like. I'm more comfortable around her than I can remember being for a long time. I'm naturally funnier and more charming just being around her. She makes me happier than I've been in a good long while.
She's got a boyfriend, Charlie. They've been together like 2 years.
My conundrum: I think she likes me. The signs are pretty good, I think, but I've never been good at picking up things like that, so it's completely possible (upon inspection, highly likely) that I'm misreading these "signs" altogether.
I haven't heard any good things about Charlie from any of her friends. I haven't even heard any good things about him from
her, and we've talked about him a decent amount. From what I can tell, he treats her like shit. He neglects her. He skips out on dates she plans. For some reason, she loves the guy.
I'm afraid to say anything to her.
On the one hand, I would be much, much better to her than Charlie is. I know it. I can make her happy.
On the other hand, she
has a boyfriend. She says she loves him...
I'd hate to say something to her and then find out that the "signs" I'm getting are just friendship that I've taken to mean more than what they are because of how I feel about her. That would most likely ruin whatever actual friendship we have right now, and I don't want to throw that away...
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