Friends or so-called friends

I have a friend who calls me damn near every day and we usually talk about problems she's having and I really dont' mind helping her out. But the thing of it is: all she ever does is switch how she feels about people and always cries and talks about herself. As I said before, I don't mind helping her out. But sometimes I need an outlet and try to go over my problems. But she just gives me "Oh, yeah, that sucks. Now back to my problem". Well, all I ever hear from her at the end of the conversation is "God, JP, you're so great! The best friend I ever had! I don't know what I'd do without you! I love you so much like a brother, etc." Well, if you care so much and appreciate me, why do you cold shoulder me when I have a problem? Hmmm...I wonder why?

Well, the question is: How many of you have a friend or so-called friend just like this?

I listen to all of their problems and they listen to all of mine... when I talk about them that is. Never had this problem.

I ignore people like that.

Problem is: I think she'd commit suicide if I ignored her. It just might be my paranoia, but I don't know. I'd hate to think that people would blame me if she killed herself because her "friend" decided to ignore her because she annoyed him.

Ask her to consider seeing a mental health expert -.-

I've thought about it and I might...not sure. She doesn't show suicidal tendencies per se, but I think she would...

I dont deal with people like that.

WIth that been happened.

I have no friends like that. All my friends are just like me, we dont give a fuck about eachother problems. My friends couldnt be better.

Its a bluff. Ya know what you do? Tell her she is a fucking moron and slap some reality into her. Thats what I did with my friend when she was acting like this. Got her to quit doing all the shit she was doing and even though she said she would just go kill herself. I asked her what that would solve and that she was a coward. Just be an asshole to her without really being an asshole.
Or you could just tell her how you feel and stop being a coward... Either way.

I have a friend who calls me damn near every day and we usually talk about problems she's having and I really dont' mind helping her out. But the thing of it is: all she ever does is switch how she feels about people and always cries and talks about herself. As I said before, I don't mind helping her out. But sometimes I need an outlet and try to go over my problems. But she just gives me "Oh, yeah, that sucks. Now back to my problem". Well, all I ever hear from her at the end of the conversation is "God, JP, you're so great! The best friend I ever had! I don't know what I'd do without you! I love you so much like a brother, etc." Well, if you care so much and appreciate me, why do you cold shoulder me when I have a problem? Hmmm...I wonder why? Well, the question is: How many of you have a friend or so-called friend just like this?

Nope, my friends are cool.

I think your friends think you're gay and don't really like you.

I have a friend who calls me damn near every day and we usually talk about problems she's having and I really dont' mind helping her out. But the thing of it is: all she ever does is switch how she feels about people and always cries and talks about herself. As I said before, I don't mind helping her out. But sometimes I need an outlet and try to go over my problems. But she just gives me "Oh, yeah, that sucks. Now back to my problem". Well, all I ever hear from her at the end of the conversation is "God, JP, you're so great! The best friend I ever had! I don't know what I'd do without you! I love you so much like a brother, etc." Well, if you care so much and appreciate me, why do you cold shoulder me when I have a problem? Hmmm...I wonder why? Well, the question is: How many of you have a friend or so-called friend just like this?

I dont befriend dumbass bitches for more than a night or two.

I have a friend who calls me damn near every day and we usually talk about problems she's having and I really dont' mind helping her out. But the thing of it is: all she ever does is switch how she feels about people and always cries and talks about herself. As I said before, I don't mind helping her out. But sometimes I need an outlet and try to go over my problems. But she just gives me "Oh, yeah, that sucks. Now back to my problem". Well, all I ever hear from her at the end of the conversation is "God, JP, you're so great! The best friend I ever had! I don't know what I'd do without you! I love you so much like a brother, etc." Well, if you care so much and appreciate me, why do you cold shoulder me when I have a problem? Hmmm...I wonder why?

Another sad case of intellectual whoring. Please refer to: http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
Diagnosed.

Another sad case of intellectual whoring. Please refer to: http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html Diagnosed.

I think this guy is going to be the next Sirpullido(sp).

Welcome to zelaron, unless you are really just an old member that recreated a name, like 3 other members have.

He's in my WoW guild. Osmoses is the "next" Sirpullido.

hahahaha.... good comment grav. Because it's true.

That's a sweet page though, the ladder theory.

God its all so true too. Kinda depressing...