The Chinese lost 100,000 while we lost a shitload of tanks planes oil and general supplies as well as 80,000 men. Of course the Chinese only lost those men at the last leg of the war because they ran through mine fields at the end and apparently whoever was in charge at that point had enough brains to fight like a spider monkey and use traps. So all in all we lost about 8 billion and the chinese lost....what? twenty bucks a BB gun? times that by 100k. It's about the net loss not the individual battle. The fact that we lost so much more monetarily and that our society believes people who go to war and people who lose loved ones in war are supposed to become mental made us the losers of that one. Some 200,000 families traumatized and the time it took for the Chinese to kick our asses boosted their morale and crushed ours. FYI Russia did not stop shit from happening to China to avoid war between China and the US they stopped it because they knew the Chinese would use that as an excuse to attack Russia and other surrounding countries. My father was there when the Chinese lined up on the Russian border and intimidated the Russians into de-mobilizing the border army.
Beileve me when I say even the US fears China because it's true. The proof is that the US is trying to put bases surrounding China in Asia right now.