4 words you never want to hear.

It kinda lets you off the hook.

Wow... that is extremely fucked up...

Once a chick gets pregnant, wether the kid is kept or not, it is still up to both "parents" to be there for each other and what not. They say getting an abortion is an emotionally taxing thing, especially if either parent wishes to keep the kid and the other is against it. So I think you should still go, if even to show that you are a responsible person that is willing to take action for your part in this turn of events.

As far as sleeping with another dude, it sounds to me like the other dude completely blew her off. So, she figured she would turn to the person she could trust. When you asked her if she wanted you to go with her, she probably took it as "Oh, jeez... now I suppose you want me to take you down to get tested..." unto which she probably felt like shit, like neither man wanted her. And in today's society, whether you are gorgeous or not, being a single parent is almost guaranteed to land you in the poor house.

I think what you should do, because it sounds like you are willing to take responsibility for the kid, is ask your parents if they would be there to help you, should a kid come up unexpectedly. Have her ask her parents as well. This way, based on their reactions, you would know if you would need to seek some sort of financial help. Of course, this is considering either of your jobs pays about minimum wage. If you feel you can be financially self sufficient, more power to you. Just know that the first, maybe year to a year and a half, is going to be mainly you bringing home the bacon, while she watches Jr. Or could be vice versa after as few as 6 months.


I guess now you will be more careful as to how much sex you have...

I thought it was gonna be, "We need to talk."

That or something like "GET DOWN HERE NOW!!!!!!

I'm just saying, at least as an actual GIRL whereas you guys are really just guys, if I was pregnant and didn't want the baby yet or at least with the person I got pregnant by, I would consider abortion (I'm pro-choice btw). I wouldn't necessarily care what my ex-bf would think about my choice. Besides, if I was a hoe too, I wouldn't know which guy is my baby daddy, so I'd still have to find that out, which would also cost money.

Well thanks for the advice, everyone..

I still don't even know what to think about everything. But this morning she texts me "I got my period!!!!!!" So I guess this chapter is over as soon as it started =\

But even still, she didn't get tested. I still think she should go and have it done, because when your period fluctuates from a day to a different day that is also a red flag. And I do know that her wanting an abortion would let me off the hook, but I personally as a potential parent don't believe in it. (I do however, don't think the government should make that decision, it is up to the coupls and 99% the womans choice).

Anyways =(

Okay just so you know, it IS NORMAL for a period to start one day later than you expected it. She could've counted wrong on her calender, if she even does that. If you're on birth control, which she should probably be if she's sleeping around, then you know when it's gonna start. As a girl, the date your period is "supposed" to start is sometimes a guesstimate, she could have been stressed out, that can sometimes cause you to skip a month. When I wasn't on birth control, I was just going by weeks, saying "okay it's been 3 weeks, I should be starting soon." Girls don't always count by days. She shouldn't have freaked you out like that so soon, she should've gotten tested first or something.

I know. I don't even hardly talk to her anymore, like at all. I try not to even randomly text her either. She just used me for some bang, and she even had the nerve to ask me if she could come over for some.. yeah. It's pathetic, I care too much, but not anymore. Not for her.

I have a feeling you're still hooked on like 100 million ex girls and you kinda need to narrow your list down. Things could get ugly if you don't. :P

She just used me for some bang, and she even had the nerve to ask me if she could come over for some.. .

I don't see the problem???

I don't see the problem???

That was after telling me she missed her period, and that she didn't want me to go with her to get tested. That's where the nerve came from.

Wow. She goes and says that she THINKS she's pregnant, and then has the nerve to ask you for sex? That's kinda pathetic. I'm not gonna lie to you.

It is, i'm cutting contact from her from the time being. I don't have time for this nonsense.