Yea, but I think that it's almost more rare to meet someone who has not had a tragic even occur. And girls that say it to get attention just look retarded.
Girls who get raped seem to normally either become sluts or become really reserved. Or at least that's what Howard Stern says ... =P. A lot of porn stars were raped.
Males that have been raped? Well ...the only way I think of raping a man is putting an object where it wasn't originally intended to belong. Ouchies.
Or him not wanting sex period. I know its hard to believe but there are cases that have had men say that they were raped. I know this because Law and Order SVU has told me