if i am reading your post right i think you screwed up pretty good. but that is just my opinion for a pvp zealot i would max fanat zeal sacrifice and then charge with a few in holy shield.
since this is your first char i would suggest making a hammer pally with maxed concentration, blessed hammers , vigor and blessed aim, also with a few in holy shield. i make this suggestion because a hammer pally
a. this pally can also be used to kill monsters fair easily to mf with/do pit runs with.
b. you do not have to have any good equipment at all my pally started with a 6 tired war axe, and i have worked up. the only thing you really need is a shield with decent resist i have been using an ancients pledge. because with a few in holy shield your blocking goes up.
Think not disdainfully of death, but look on it with favor; for even death is one of the things that Nature wills.