complaining about stupid guy problem

How long do you see yourselves being together? Can you picture a life with him?

By what she described, I doubt it.

Get him drunk and see how he acts... he might just be insecure.

Well i don't want to think about marrying him just yet.

Yeah, it's entirely possible that he's just not comfortable around you enough to actually be himself.

I was like that for almost a year with my long-time ex. It took forever to break my shell, but after that point I basically turned into an asshole from what she tells me.