My relationship.. status.

Getting absorbed in somebody can affect your decisions, and how you think., atleast for me it does.

Getting absorbed in somebody can affect your decisions, and how you think., atleast for me it does.

it does for everyone i suppose, but sometimes its better to make yourself happy even if the other person wont be happy, i have a hard time with that

That's one thing I did ontice was becoming selfless around her, which sucks really I was moving too fast.

it really just depends on the situation, but being in a relationship means 50/50, so if she's happy and you're happy, then its all good. but if she's the only one happy and nothing is changing, then nothing is gonna change lol. no point in being in a miserable relationship, you would only end up hurting yourself. i hate my advice, too much truth to it, lol.

So pretty much, Tutti's saying to buy a hooker.

lol i am not! jeez, you could be helpful and give him some advice... :P

it really just depends on the situation, but being in a relationship means 50/50, so if she's happy and you're happy, then its all good. but if she's the only one happy and nothing is changing, then nothing is gonna change lol. no point in being in a miserable relationship, you would only end up hurting yourself. i hate my advice, too much truth to it, lol.

Definately, definately. Atleast it's early on with this relationship.. I mean I am still very confused though with her.. she sent me this text today after sending a few in the morning, asking when I wanted to talk..

"Baby.. i know what i want. N i know what i need... N yea i dont want anything 2 change with u n me..."

That was after I sent her a text saying that I'm always gonna miss her, and that I'd still atleast love to still be friends no matter what... and that I hope she doesn't feel bad or guilty or anything, just that I hope that she knows what she wants for herself.. and from another..

So basically, I'm left hanging still. I mean she did ask me this morning around like noon if I wanted to chill or something later,.. It's just, idk. Awkward, I'ma let the situation just fizzle down right now, already hitting up a few ladies on myspace, and went and hung out with a buddy of mine and two girls he knows so things aren't totally hopeless for me, and if she does come to her senses and wants to get back I'm sure i'd be down for it, and if not, well atleast now i'm working on something else...

1. All girls are whores.

2. Become an asshole and show lack of respect for women and ignore them when they try to talk to you.

3. Insult their favorite things and insist their morals and ideals are nothing but feminine mumbo jumbo.

4. Prepare for all the pussy that is going to be thrown your way.

... is that SERIOUSLY working for you right now? cause i'm guessing you do that. if you do all that and its working, then all the girls you get with are seriously stupid whores. as a REAL girl, i wouldn't give you a second thought.

1. All girls are whores. 2. Become an asshole and show lack of respect for women and ignore them when they try to talk to you. 3. Insult their favorite things and insist their morals and ideals are nothing but feminine mumbo jumbo. 4. Prepare for all the pussy that is going to be thrown your way.

I've been contemplating being a jackass ever since me and my first EX split, and in all honesty it really does work. It's a nice angle to play if what you are doing isn't working. At this point I don't even care anymore, so it would be easier to do. We'll see how things turn out, lol. Girls want a hardass, not a punkass.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.