so what do you do when...

Willkillforfood

[QUOTE=Willkillforfood] it's really going to consume a good piece of your life QUOTE]

your WHOLE life, after having a child, nearly NOTHING matters anymore. I couldn't have an abortion. I feel that if i couldn't care for a child I would give it up for adoption, obviously I stuck with it and grew 10 years in 1. It depends a lot on your character and wants from life. How old is the sperm donor?

klo

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Kaneda

The "ditch the asshole" advice is the best I've seen here.
I can't really give advice on the whole baby factor. I do think Klo is right, though; depending on your own character, actually having a child may prompt a life-altering growth in maturity. On the other hand, you could just turn out to be a crappy parent, so maybe you don't want to risk that. I don't know you, so I can't say what would actually happen in such a circumstance. You're the only person who has the right to make that judgement.

But, yeah, ditch the asshole.

Vault Dweller

Even as far as parenting, it's more practical right now to wait until you've got some college done and a decent job rather than have a baby as a senior in high school with a most likely mediocre dead end job if any job at all.

!King_Amazon! · 01:48 AM

Good luck either way.

klo

And how old are you?

D3V

im 18

AmBam · Posted 2007-12-20, 11:50 AM in reply to AmBam's post starting "im 18"

hahaha CRAZY. I was also 18, and kaneda was 22.

anyways, he was excited at first as well, changed his mind about 7 mos in...read previous posts for "catch up", then when she was here...something changed him again and now he's a great dad and man

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but while he's treating you like shit, cut him out. either he'll wake up or you'll do it on your own. we never discussed..how far along are you? even able to have an abortion anymore?