Smoking, childcare, and ruining one's relationship with a threesome

And I think I'm right and that you're wrong. It goes in circles because neither of us will be able to convince the other that they're wrong or we'll be too stubborn to openly admit we had a change of opinion.

I agree w/K_A. :P lol

I've known couple who have been together for several years and who love each other and sometimes have group sessions with friends of theirs, but their love hasn't waned.

I don't think its healthy, and it would ruin any relationship i was in. I coudln't stand seeing my lover look at someone else in a sexual way...eh not happening. ugh, actually almost upsets me to think about it . although i guess that if i thought it would make him happy i'd do it, but then never want to do him again. lol

I'd have a major problem with him wanting to do it without me, honestly. At least if I'm there, I can say I monitored in some way.

I'd have a major problem with him wanting to do it without me, honestly. At least if I'm there, I can say I monitored in some way.

What does it matter? If he's messing around on someone without you there or messing around with someone with you there, he's still messing around with someone either way.

The difference is I can know what he's doing. Whether he's using protection or not, whether there may be a slight romantic fling between the two.

Dear God ...I'd have to say I agree with KA too. What the fuck is wrong with the world?

A lot is wrong with the world.