I was being serious, yeah. I have a problem being a disciplinarian for my closest friends, naturally.
I really don't like having to make decisions like that.
Isn't the best decision maker, the one that fears the decision? Isn't that Greek philosophy that the leader of Utopia should be the person who wants to do it the least?
Well, you can't -just- worry about other peoples' feelings. If they're being unreasonable then you don't have the appease them. Hell you never have to appease them.