Is this right or wrong or...

but i dont want to be too much of a friend, with her being confused... i may end up just only being that to her

thats a valid point, but its what you have to do. Listen to the only girl in the forum.

Yea, listen to me. Being the only girl on the forum you should value my opinion.

That honestly cracked me up.

Anywho, Acer. There's always a possibility that she will go to him over you. You can hope that she'll realize that you're the better of the two, but that's not always the case. Girls are naive, and we have this stupid thing where we listen to our emotions and not our brains...even when it's blatantly obvious who we should go with.

You don't have to be "too much of a friend". Just be there if she needs ya, yanno?

Thats what I been trying to do... but whats confusing is... she always needs me. she dosent like me not being around. and for that, i feel maybe i shouldnt be around for awhile... maybe make her realize how i much i do mean to her. like how she left her b/f and now that he's over her, she's having withdrawls

Seems to me like she's being negligent of your feelings. If she wasn't over him she shouldn't have gotten involved.

well she did tell me she at the beginning she was afraid this would happen, but i didnt care. and i still would of made the same choice knowing what i know now