About 2 weeks two of my co-worker's friends died in a car accident. Thing is, it didn't affect her too much because guess how they died? Driver was trying to do a line of coke on his dash and then it flipped into a lake. Talk about shit dude.
Sadly, I literally did serve them their last meal when they came into Hardees that night.
All in all, life sucks. And as for the God aspect, in the NIV Bible it says that he works all things for the good of those who love him.