Kagom, don't be bi... please. Why can't you just be this guy's friend? It makes no sense whatsoever. The truth must be that you just want to get a little bitta boss, and there are no females handy.
No, I am sorry, but it does not make any sense to me, and in my book you will always be wrong. If you feel that way, fine, it's not my business, but you will never convince me that it is okay in any way, nor that it makes any sense.