So your saying i should have become her boy friend so i could sleep with her, when i never wanted to date her? That would have been real cool in the morning when i go, "yea so im dumping you because i dont like you like that. I just used you for sex." No thats not the type of guy i am. And im not afraid of sex, im actually ready to do it. But i wont do it under pretenses that i have to become a boyfriend with somebody i really dont even like