Druid Spirit Question

[MysticWonton]

I made a melee druid a lil while ago i'm lvl 20 now and i can't choose which spirit to use... oak sage for alot of life.. or the other one for dmg and ar i think that i would need the ar but the life wouldn't be bad either dunno what to pick sooo what do you guys think :D and if you say druids suck i don't care cus i've made just about everything else

[Ganga]

oak! Have you ever seen any other druid that have another dpirit beside oak?!?!

[DarkXSavior]

go for oak, since u'll hav a lot of ar already, juz wear angelics ammy+rings,hsarus boots+belt for Ar and chamed SS+15dr 2xshealed coa for max Dr and use eth Dc as weap

[MysticWonton]

What is dc? and on the last spirit thingy it says dmg reflected or something does that mean they don't dmg you? or is it just like thorns kinda? and i have ummm... non eth botd zerk for wep