Parents...

[Silverjinx18]

Do you ever get scared that you'll probably grow up and be just like you're parents...my worst fear about this subject is that I'll get married to some guy that's just like my dad and whenever we fight or something I'll get soooo tiered of it and just say fine...you're right or whatever you want dear....and it will be like that forever and ever and ever... :cry:

[Adrenachrome]

Poor Bob.......

[Silverjinx18]

Well he made me think of it actually...we got in a fight and I was thinking that when we normaly get into fights I usually end up saying yeah whatever you say...you're right...and I really hate that because it's just like what my parents do...

[EX-Mania]

don't be bob's bitch :o.. i dont mean dont be his gf.. but i mean.. dont be his bitch.. argue and prove ur point :P.. hmm actually after he reads this thread he'll prolly understand that hes makin u feel bad.. hopefully anyway

[Adrenachrome]

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[kaos]

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[Titusfied]

OMG, Adrena, that is funny ass shit!!!

[Silverjinx18]

Can we keep this on topic here...My question was Do you think you'll be like your parents when you get married and would it be a bad thing to you?

[Titusfied]

Sorry. :(

I meant to comment, but after I saw that picture, I lost complete train of thought. :(

I already know I'm gonna be like my parents. Well, my dad that is. I al ready feel like I deal with certain situations too maturely sometimes, but then again, there are other things that I will definitely have to outgrow (Excessive drinking binges for example... ;) ). From the stories my dad has told me in the last few months alone, since I've turned 21 and we've hung out at a few bars to just shoot the shit, I am pretty much a spitting image of my father's life. I take it as a compliment though, I look up to him more than anyone, and always will. :)

[Medieval Bob]

Everybody knows at least a few things about their parents that they would change, and since nobody wants flaws, it would be bad to grow up like parents.

[Titusfied]

I don't agree with that at all. Not all parents are as bad as you think, and when you get older, and experience more, you will see that. I'm only 3 or so years older than you Bob, and trust me, 18 is a hella naive age.

[zagggon]

i cant wait

[EX-Mania]

Ofcourse, everyone acts their age... although there are a few exceptions; most of the people will do what people their age do.. comes with genetics too.. ur probably going to end up being like what ur parents were like

[Adrenachrome]

Titus I see your point, The older you get the more your parents make sense?

[khwiii]

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So that's what it says if you get past the first round.


Btw, On topic Silver, When you want to be with someone you mkae consessions. You may know in your heart that you are right, but to not cause rifts, you'll just bow out of the arguement. My G/f and I do it all the time. Well, she does it more then I. Put it's my fault for hating to lose at anything.

And to Bob, she thinks she's always right it seems, I know. Sometimes it's your job to say ok, fine, whatever too. You can't always win.

Oh shoot, and to really be on topic. Be like the good in your parents. I strive to be like my mom, and be far from like my dad.

[Titusfied]

Titus I see your point, The older you get the more your parents make sense?

Exactly, but I also think it works the other way. The older you get, the more they can talk to you about things they couldn't before, and the more you can even make sense to them. Its pretty great actually. :)

[Medieval Bob]

So you don't think your parents have any faults?

[Silverjinx18]

But it's my fault for hating to lose at anything.

that's just how Bob is...


And to Bob, she thinks she's always right it seems, I know.

no...I just wish I could get a chance sometimes...

[Titusfied]

So you don't think your parents have any faults?

Did I ever say that? Nopers. I'm just saying that there is no one better than your parents to use as role models for the type of adult/parent you want to be. Not everyone's parents are the same, so everyone has their own opinions on what they think their parents are doing wrong.

No one's parents are perfect, but if you can find that many flaws in your parents, I hate to say it, but I feel bad for you. Either that, or you just haven't realized their reasons for doing what they do yet.

[Silverjinx18]

or you're just stubbern and don't want to...

[Medieval Bob]

No one's parents are perfect, but if you can find that many flaws in your parents, I hate to say it, but I feel bad for you. Either that, or you just haven't realized their reasons for doing what they do yet.

Maybe you didn't read my post...

Everybody knows at least a few things about their parents that they would change, and since nobody wants flaws, it would be bad to grow up like parents.

[Titusfied]

No, perhaps you failed to read my post then. You said, and it is quoted up there, "it would be bad to grow up like parents." From that, I implied that you figured your parents have too many flaws, which I replied with what you quoted me on up there.

Get it now? No need for you and your woman to gang up on me, we, as in Bob and I, have a few disagreeing opinions, that's all, nothing more. Maybe our posts aren't fully depicting what we would like it to.

[Medieval Bob]

When I said it would be bad to grow up like parents, it followed the words, "since nobody wants flaws." A goal should always be at least near-perfect. I'm not saying it would be a horrible thing, but in the best of circumstances, and with the best possible outcome, I don't believe anyone would want to be just like their parents.

[Titusfied]

I can agree with that. Perfection is always strived for of course, but too bad it never happens. If at worst, you grew up to be your parents, I don't think it would be bad at all.

Agreement reached. :)

[Silverjinx18]

oh I wasn't meaning that one post to be against you...I honestly ment it towards Bob...he's Kinda stuborn towards some of the things his mom says...

[Titusfied]

To tell you the truth, I am kind of biased towards my dad, so I sometimes give my mom a hard time, even though I don't see or talk to her that much. :(

I feel bad though, so I try to take her out to dinner once or twice a month just so I can get some slone time to catch up with her. :) I still don't think that is enough though, but I can't really dedicate anymore time.

[Medieval Bob]

Yep... Cuz I'm so stubborn, I never let anybody win an argument. I'm a horrible person for it too.

[kaos]

i hate my parents , i hope they fuckin die and burn in hell. i always imagine if they did die and burn in hell how my life wou'd be A LOT better.

[Titusfied]

I hope you die and go to hell for saying such a thing.

You're terrible.

[Silverjinx18]

Yep... Cuz I'm so stubborn, I never let anybody win an argument. I'm a horrible person for it too.

pls stay on topic...this isn't about our personal life it's about how you feel you're parents will influence you're married life :) ty

[-Spector-]

looks like silver is winning this argument :p

[Penny_Bags]

You're terrible. erm yeah, you are terrible for saying that. I have noticed that Bob always seems to want to win every arguement he gets into.

Warning: The following is a long post in which I will be going buck nuts about my family. (I hope that not EVERYONE blows this off. I just poured my most inner thoughts about my family into this, stuff I don't like to think about.)

My parents got divorced last year, I'm 15, both sisters just went to college in the past two years, and I have a five year old brother. So after seventeen years of arguing, my dad had a mid life crisis about a year after my brother was born, which I can plainly see was an "accident", which I hope he never realizes, and it pains me to say it. How can human life be an accident!??!?! But anyways, my dad had made my mom go out with him every night, the only way she did this was because fear of ending the marriage (she thought it would crush us kids, give me a break, we ALL saw it coming). They forced my oldest sister to be babysitting the kid nearly nonstop, which ruined her social life until senior year, when my mom kicked my dad out of the house. you know why? My mom heard my dad talking to his sister about how the girl he was just about cheating with (no sex). She went berserk and started slapping him a little, then through some small 4 pound weights at the wall. I was in my room, nearly in tears, building a LEGO toy I got for Christmas a few days earlier. Later I over heard my mom talking to my dad about how they would only stay married for the kids, that lasted for about 3 months. Divorce is a very evil thing. It shouldn't need to happen. A warning to all of you who are on the brink of starting adulthood, don't rush into marriage (strong warning for a 15 year old little kid i suppose).

Oh yeah, on a side note, during my dad's midlife crisis, which ruined my family's life, we moved out of my perfect neighborhood that I spent my childhood in, to about 20 minutes away, which was just enough to ruin my neighborhood life of backyard baseball, and late night games of basically anyhting the 10 of us kids in the neighborhood wanted to do. These days my dad is forcing me to work 5 days a week 8 hours a day, so I can buy a car, when my friends with much poorer familes (we are in no way poor) get FREE cars. Damn the system.

[Medieval Bob]

I have noticed that Bob always seems to want to win every arguement he gets into.

Why would anybody get into an argument with the intention of not winning? I'm sorry I'm stubborn, but that's one of my flaws. Some people are short. Some people are idiots. Some people are stubborn. That's just the way it is.

[kaos]

k all i raed was the words that popped out oh and if you knew my parents you'd want them to die and burn in hell too :)

[khwiii]

Yep... Cuz I'm so stubborn, I never let anybody win an argument. I'm a horrible person for it too.

No, not horrible, just self-assure. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be right all the time, just when it comes to a relationship, you can't be. You have to swallow your pride. Even as I type this I am saying to myself, " You are one to be giving advise on soemthing you don't do well yourself" . SO no doubt it's not an easy thing to do.

[Medieval Bob]

That's good and all, and I appreciate the advice, but this isn't really something I'd like to discuss in public forums...

[Titusfied]

Although you should never go into an arguement with intents to win, you should also go into them with an open mind, ready to accept others opinions, even a mule could accomplish that. :) Errr, well maybe not literally, but it fit for the phrase, "You're as stubborn as a mule."

........... :weird:

[kaos]

k before that above post slowly turns this into a nother topic i'd like to apoligze for the apove post about my parents...my grammar was really bad

[khwiii]

Well, Bob, to be honest, it's not exactly like I know what the arguement is about. For that matter, I don't even care what the arguement is about. I'm not saying your wrong at this time. I'm not saying you aren't always right. Just saying compromise is the ONLY way a relationship can work.

[Penny_Bags]

Sadly, my long post, like 99% of all the other long posts, got devoured. :Sigh: I guess it's bullshit posts from here on out... Maybe if I right the post, then cut it out into fourths and scatter it through the thread that would be better! lol jk

[Medieval Bob]

Sorry bout that, Penny. I skimmed your post at best since you gave a warning. Ya, life is hard sometimes.

I don't have one friend in my neighborhood, but that's no big deal now since I can drive. Oh, and my parents got a divorce when I was 12 or so. It wasn't that bad for me though, because living with them when they fought was pretty bad. I was happy they weren't together anymore. Dad only moved about 20 minutes away, so I still got to see him whenever I wanted. He died a few years ago in a motercycle accident though. Anyhow, sorry for the rambling... I just thought I'd let ya know you're not alone.

[slaynish]

I have noticed that Bob always seems to want to win every arguement he gets into.

Why would anybody get into an argument with the intention of not winning? I'm sorry I'm stubborn, but that's one of my flaws. Some people are short. Some people are idiots. Some people are stubborn. That's just the way it is.




I LOVE to argue with all my friends because if they piss me off i can beat the hell out of them... their like, no dude i dont want to argue, im like well i do, so whatcha got?



my parents got divorced with i was a baby, my dad like abused my brother and me as a littttle baby.

you know, how little kids and babies just stare and cigaretts and cigars and stuff because their dumb? well my dad trys to stuff them down our throaght.


yeah well my dad did drugs. so .yah

[Silverjinx18]

Although you should never go into an arguement with intents to win, you should also go into them with an open mind, ready to accept others opinions


o_O Wow it's like a big glowing light formed around this post and angels sang while I read it...hehe that's exactly right! *whispers to Bob* that's what I was trying to say last night...

[Titusfied]

Damnit Bob, now why wouldn't you just succumb and go down on her damnit! ;)

j/k.... :)

[Silverjinx18]

OMG!!!:aww:

[kaimana]

yeah well my dad did drugs. so .yah

Sorry about that Slaynish...my dad did too, and my brothers dad as well...never had a problem with them abusing us though, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

And Penny...I've heard divorce sucks, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Luckily, my mom and Dad never got married...probably the best for all involved, as I mentioned before...he's on drugs, so there you go.

The across town thing sucks...but...I can top ya...my mom's second husband lived in TEXAS. We lived in California, and she married him, and we moved all the way to small town, Texas. And now they're divorced. And we still live in Texas.

[ViciousMilitia]

OMG!!!:aww:


Shut up, you know you like it when he does it.

The question is.....is bob willing to.....or does he plague fish?

[Medieval Bob]

I'm actually not too sure you would know what you're talking about VM. For all we know, your experience is limited to actual fish.

Besides, Silver and I have stated numerous times that we are waiting for marriage. Piont being, whether you can believe it or not, some people have stronger morals and conviction than you.

Besides, if a person were to plague fish, he would be inflicting them with a disease. At least try to make your lewd comments make sense, okay?

[Strider Fury]

I LOVE to argue with all my friends because if they piss me off i can beat the hell out of them... their like, no dude i dont want to argue, im like well i do, so whatcha got?


do you sit on them.

[Medieval Bob]

Now that's kinda kinky.

[ViciousMilitia]

I'm actually not too sure you would know what you're talking about VM. For all we know, your experience is limited to actual fish.

Besides, Silver and I have stated numerous times that we are waiting for marriage. Piont being, whether you can believe it or not, some people have stronger morals and conviction than you.

Besides, if a person were to plague fish, he would be inflicting them with a disease. At least try to make your lewd comments make sense, okay?

I was just wondering if your girlfriend has a horrible smelling crotch area, calm down.....the way you act I didn't know you had morals you silly little virgin.

[Medieval Bob]

My girlfriend's "crotch area" is none of your damn business you stupid little kid. Keep your wondering to your damn self.

[ViciousMilitia]

My girlfriend's "crotch area" is none of your damn business you stupid little kid. Keep your wondering to your damn self.

I'd rather just wonder out loud, cause it is obviously getting to you......mmmmm jinx's crotch.....is there anything it doesn't do for me.

Medi3valbob: Edit that out
ViciousMilitia: what?
Medi3valbob: Edit it out
ViciousMilitia: give me money
ViciousMilitia: through pay pal
Medi3valbob: I'm not giving you shit you little punk
Medi3valbob: Edit it the fuck out
ViciousMilitia: 20 bucks and it's done
ViciousMilitia: fuck you dude your an asshole to me
Medi3valbob: STOP TALKING ABOUT MY GIRLFRIEND'S FUCKING CROTH
Medi3valbob: *CROTCH
ViciousMilitia: calm down your looking like a fool
Medi3valbob: I am?
ViciousMilitia: i don't even know your girlfriend
ViciousMilitia: don't get so pissed
Medi3valbob: I don't give a fuck
Medi3valbob: Repeat: Edit it out.
ViciousMilitia: Repeat: give me money

[!King_Amazon!]

Someone needs to smack VM, just in case he has any friends over that are reading this. I'll give you a dollar.

[ViciousMilitia]

Someone needs to smack VM, just in case he has any friends over that are reading this. I'll give you a dollar.

My girlfriend already did when I posted it.

[Silverjinx18]

I'd rather just wonder out loud, cause it is obviously getting to you......mmmmm jinx's crotch.....is there anything it doesn't do for me.



#1 this is way way way the fuck off topic!
#2 There is plenty it doesn't do fo you!
#3....I think you're "girlfriends" dick does a lot more for you then Senesia's sig...

[Titusfied]

I'm not trying to pry into your business, but when you say you are waiting for marriage, do you mean just sex, or most foreplay as well?

[Medieval Bob]

That's private sorry. We're not going to have any "prying." Besides, this is way off topic, and I'm not appreciating any of it one bit.

[Adrenachrome]

Closed.