Problema con amigo

My friend keeps bothering me: I challenged him to a 2v2 at CS, his friend vs me and my friend. He won, 12-16, not a huge win by CS1.6 standards.

Later on that night he comes on our Ventrilo and stays in the lobby, I go in and ask politely: "Hey, what's up guys?" and he says "your mom.". I repeat the question, and get the same answer. I wait for ~15 seconds, then just ban them.

He gets on MSN and bitches that he was busy in a scrim, did I do the right thing by banning him for being a bitch?

Let him back on and tell him, "My bad." Then ban him again. Then laugh.

Wtf? I hope this isn't keeping you awake at night.

Yeah, it is keeping me awake...

I told him I'd let him back in as long as he stayed quiet//GM.

I'da just banned him the first time. :P

Just unban him eventually and all will be well.

Insolence weren't you the one who had the problem with taking your friend to a concert that was like 20 miles away for some music you didn't like anyways?

Yeah, that was the other problem I had. He didn't care much past that night; all was well.

It was 7 hours away, btw

EDIT: Confused "passed" and "past", I think.

You're what some people would call a "door mat" personality. You let people walk all over you.

I let people walk all over me?

I banned him and his friends from the server, how is that being a door mat?

You felt guilty about it even though he deserved it. You lose sleep over little shit, lol.

I highly doubt he was being serious about that...

I was being serious, yeah. I have a problem being a disciplinarian for my closest friends, naturally.

I really don't like having to make decisions like that.

Isn't the best decision maker, the one that fears the decision? Isn't that Greek philosophy that the leader of Utopia should be the person who wants to do it the least?

Well, you can't -just- worry about other peoples' feelings. If they're being unreasonable then you don't have the appease them. Hell you never have to appease them.

Your mom.

/ban Titusfied