Cheat with me

It's not like that. i mean, you guys' dont think it has anything to do with the fact that we're a four hour drive away from each other? he's moving here this wed. and getting a job at my work.....and i guess if i suspect anything ill just shoot him or something haha.

Whether he is 4 hours away or living with you, you'll never know for sure if he's being honest and loyal to you because the trust is gone now. If you think you'll be able to know if he's cheating just because he's closer to you, you're crazy. Some married people have affairs for years and years, start two families with two different people, and their spouses never find out.

He's not going to change just because you want him to or because you think you can change him, he has to decide to change for himself.

And yes, women do set themselves up to be hurt a lot, I watch it happen every day, and the sad thing is they do it over and over too.