Finally I get it

How about this, just do what you feel like doing. If you want to play the good guy, play the good guy, want to be the bad ass, go for it, want to follow advice, just go ahead, want to ignore everyone's advice, including mine, feel free to do so... Unfortunately, whatever you do, you're going to end up following my advice. To that, I won't dictate you how you should do things, it's your life, you choose how you want to live it.

if a girl is that unsure of herself then she will never be sure in anything she will ever do. From personal experiece, the girls that are sure will always be better at everything, whether they win or lose. They know they look good or know that they have to drop wait. The difference is that they will go out and find ways to accomplish their goals. Also, the confident ones are much better at head, i swear

Well, if you wanna be semi-optimistic, you could always look at this as your angle to get in. Tell her she is good looking and stuff and POOM, you are in.

Well thats the thing... she either really does, or was testing me. I couldn't see her not thinking she was sexy... she said she "looks good" just not sexy. I don't know if I mentioned that(too lazy to check). So, I dunno... I know a few of her ex's, and I don't worry about how good she is at things, I know she it lol

really so your hitting your frinend's ex?

I guess so... she was with this one guy for like 2years, last relationship. He is my really good friend's brothher, now he dosen't know about me but im still wondering how that will go. My frind however would be all for it tho he like "that" with his brother.