Unthoughtfulness

I'm making this to refer to the forum called "she died", did everyone there ever think that if it is real that you're all posting very rude things, and if it didn't happen then keep your rude thoughts to yourself, because I've heard stuff before that was unbelievable, but then turned out to be true. I lost my grandmother not too long ago and after that if I said something and someone responded by saying I was lying right off the bat I would be very upset. This is not exactly my area to usually visit but that just really pisses me off when people assume things, and take the little knowledge of the situation that they have and use it to state fact. This is all I will write most likely. I will not respond if someone says something like it was fake. Understand that these subject matters are not something to talk about casually in everyday life.