I need advice

Honestly, I didn't know where else to turn. I don't know what to do. I might have to quit gymnastics. I mean, i love it more then life, it's probably the only thing I'm good at and the only way I'm getting into college, but I can't. I can't stand the people, and the fact that they don't know the shit I go through on a daily basis, and keep giving me more. And, they don't like the things I say, or the way I do something. I got beat up today. And it will probably continue. I'm scared to go back, but I need it. What should I do?

Well, first off, if you got beat up how bad? Can you get these people arrested? Because then half your problem is solved. Just go about your business and dont talk to anybody. From personal experience, he ebst way to deal with a stupid group of people is to keep to yourself. Talk to your friends if they are around, other then that, its business, if you want to make it in college. If you need to talk to somebody, you have the number.

Not bad enough to get arrested, and they did it kinda smart, i mean, the bruises i have are all where my leo / reguar clothes covers. We're gonna see how today goes.

Well if they touch you again, then i would go to the cops. That or get my guy friends to come down and have a word or two.

Katie, based on the information that you are giving I cant really advise you of what to do. Need more info. If you got assaulted you should contact local law enforcement and file a report with them and check into filling charges, restraining orders are posible to, but I dont know the laws in your state. Are the ones that assaulted you students or what, in gymnastics with you, peirs or not? Need more infomation to advise you from my point of view. Lucky for me I had the same things happen in school. Now Im a High Black belt and a cop, I can beat there ass and take them to jail..

Oh no its all taken care of. No advise needed.
They turned the story around, told my coach I beat them up, and I got cut from the team. So then, I had to walk home an hour and a half to get home. Low and behold, about half-way home it beings to rain. Wonderful day.

And your coach believed them?! I'm sorry, but what type of idiot believes that ONE person beat up a GROUP of people?

From just talking on here and AIM, one can see that you're not the type to bully someone, so surely people who know you IRL should be able to see that.

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I walked home in the rain today, too, and got very wet, if it's any small consolation.

Well also, its one persons word against 3. Who would you believe?

To be perfectly honest, if I was a coach, and three girls came to me because another girl was bullying them (whether it be true or not), I'd wave them away. I've seen groups of girls fall out for daft reasons in the past.

But, if I knew the girls - maybe three bithces who like to scheme, and one who just tries to be friendly - I'd think something was going on.

Obviously your coach (male or female, btw?) is an idiot. How old are the other three girls?

The coach, SHE is an idiot. The other girls were 2 freshman and 1 senior. Shes so oblivious, and thinks that im a bad person because i listen to "the devils music" and used to wear abnormally large pants(untill my mommy threw them out =( ) w.e.

she never liked me, but she needed me because im the highest scorrer on the team. i hope they lose now. i really do. we won all the meets before, but fuck em. I'm not gonna make it big, i dont want that to happen. I just want to forget about it, and try to get back on the team.

I wouldn't bother trying to rejoin the team.

Well, first off, i know your coach and she might be the biggest whore ever. That lady should slit her own throat for being such an asshole. I remember once i was at a met and i started cheering for one of our girls. She turns to me and says "This isnt basketball ok mister. Sit down and be quite" I then stated that i am cheering for our team and not messing anyone up at all. She then has security escort me out of the gym, so from outside the gym i yelled dyke and ran. I never went to another meet after.
I have to ask katie because it is important. Did u hit start something up with them today? Becuase if they came to u and hit you first, your just playing self defense. If u threw the first punch then the blame will immediately be on you. As for gymnastics, most colleges have tryouts so if your as good as i believe, then youll do just fine if you cant get back on the team. this is where you have to call somebody involved with the school to get you back on. And start a petition to fire the coach. Other then that, just ignore these girls. You know why??? Because in college, these are the girls that get the std's and end up fucked up on coke. I know cause i was friends with those types of girls in High school and now they are all coke whores with hep a and b. Not pretty sites. Girls like that wont get anything out of college and will be dumber then rocks for the rest of thier lives. I see success for you so dont let some useless twats make you feel bad.

I feel like crap. I didnt even hit back at all!!! I was walking away, one girl jumped on my back, slammed my head into the concrete wile the other 2 kicked me in the ribs. Ugh, idk what to do. at all.

That's assault, with no provocation on your behalf. They CAN be punished for that by the Law.

Kenpo knows your laws a lot better than me, but over here I could have them severely punished.

Just a thought.

Call the cops and sue. What better way to get them back but with an over night and shopping spree with their money

i hate shopping. and i just want to forget about it. i dont want to keep going with it. I mean, you guys give good ideas in a sense, but idk. i just dont know what i should do.

By you not doing anything basically tells them, "Hey i dont care what you do to me, im not going to tell." I am sure that if you say something to the right people, aka the cops, noone will give u even a dirty look for the rest of the year.

But don't retaliate if they start provoking you. There's nothing worse than saying you haven't done anything to them one minute, and then going all-out psycho on them the next.

It's best to ignore them if they try to bait you, but not just let everything pass by.

The biggest question everyone is forgetting to ask, is why they beat you up? Any particular reason that you can think of, because it's not normal behavior for someone to just get jumped when they are on a sports team together.. There must be a reason.

First of all Gruesom everyone in the eastern united states has your number. 2nd go to the police on the matter. 3rd Titus Your my boy! Kbye