well i agree that texting can sometimes be easier to talk about your feelings, cause you're not being so vulnerable as you would be looking into someone's eyes and talking about something serious like that, i just don't understand how you two could be on totally different pages, she should've said something before, not just 'uh yeah i dont know if this is gonna work'. if she keeps going back and forth between feelings for you, then you just need to make your feelings clear and known to her, and the rest is up to her, because she has to decide if she's ready for the kind of relationship you want. or you may be overcompensating for your last gf or something, you could be coming on strong but you can't know that unless she says something. you can't expect to have a good relationship with someone if you both don't communicate feelings and thoughts and if you keep each other in the dark all the time. i know what this is like, trust me, it does not make good for a relationship.