Ok...this was awhile ago, but if I remember what the problem is correctly...

I had two different heros, one male, one female. I think I had it so that it would change the name of the hero it starts with, but if you select Female instead of Male then it adds the 2nd hero(female) and removes the first(with the configured name).

I'm guessing that I tried the other way around and made the player choose between male and female first and THEN you change your name, but I guess that didn't work or something.

Oh and as for your suggestions of me using rmxp. I don't think that's gonna happen. I've tried using it, but either I have a fucked up version of it, or I really can't find anything I'm looking for in the program. I don't know...

"Ban shampoo, demand real poo"