Almost how my boyfriend now is. He's never been in a serious relationship until he got together with me. He wants to have an open relationship so he can still play around with other people, but I don't want that because I'm a tad old fashioned, but I want the same amount of loyalty and dedication that I show to be returned. He said that he will "try" to be dedicated, but that it's not willingly. The thing is, he doesn't understand what it means to be really committed to someone. He thinks that it's a metaphorical dungeon and that it only can go one way. I'm trying to do my best to show him otherwise, but we'll see how this all goes.