I notice that people who often say some kind of slang term is offensive are not on the right side of the fence. In other words, if she isn't gay, for her to say that something or someone is offending all or the majority of gays is like me saying that Germans are offended by mock german cooking. I would not know if they are offended by it since I am not a German citizen and was not raised in Germany and even if I were my word would not be the word of all or most Germans just as hers is most certainly not the word of all or most gays.