I have only had one long term girl friend and that was for 4 months. She had gotten a promise ring from her father when she was 10 and she told me when we started seeing each other that no sex was going to be had. I didnt mind because i liked her and the relationship was actually nice. We fooled around but never went the full way. A relationship about caring for someone is twice as good as a sexual relationship. I mean, if she had said fuck the ring and lets do it, i probably would have, but that never happened.