Keep it in ur pants, dude. All your doing is reinforcing, not only hers, but your insecurities and lusts based on shit u see on TV or hear in songs. I don't want to diss the mainstream, but it happens alot. I could just be what
you see around you.

Stop allowing media or your friends to influence your life. Trust me, it might be fun if you actually know what the hell your really doing to urself. There is a reason that your parents tell you not to have sex. It's to protect you. You know what STD's are? You sleep around with too many people or just the wrong person you wish you didn't. You get a girl pregnant, you'll regret it for 18+ years. 1 out of 9 condoms fail.

Don't take my for a goody-two-shoes, I've done my share of stupid kid shit too. But at 16 I know and can control what the fuck I'm doing.