By Kagom~

Ok...here's how it works. You have to prep first. That requires having a bowel movement 2 hours prior to sex. After that, you clean out the anus with soap. Now, as for pain: it can be if you haven't prepped yourself prior with items that can be inserted. I know that sounds nasty and all that good stuff, but that's how it works. Most gay/bi men start off with a finger and rub the prostrate and work up from there. Also, all men use a lube of some kind. Finally, they have stuff to numb your butt so you can't feel any pain during sex~

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