I would say enough for SS, your enigma(If you own one) and ect. About 200...

I have dex enough for SS becuase that is usually only thing that needs dex for my pallies. Just put enough that you will need.

Life... Res of the points into life... That will be a key in zealot becuase you will mostly duel hammadins and fohing runners.. I would use charge against fohing runners and againt sorces once you lock them. I usually do. Hammadins will be a problem becuase their range but if you can get into their circle then more power to you.