It's not love if your with someone for a long time and you end up enjoying yourself more then before with that person. It's kinda the same thing with most ppl that start to drink beer. We all know that most ppl hate the taste of beer and end up liking it over time. It's almost the same thing. The only diff. is that the beer cannot end up enjoying back after time. This is why you dont feel the same toward beer, old pair of jeans, shoes, slipper or whatever, That you could toward someone.