Flaming as it takes place in the Flame Forum is very different from the infrequent, "No, I don't agree with you, douchebag."

Honestly, if you really feel the need to reply with more gusto than that, you just don't have any sense of self-control, and deserve to be banned. If you must, give a simple insult, make a new thread in the Flame Forum and put a re-direct to that link.