Girls are too confusing.
 

met one about a month and a half back, got along really well and hung out quite a bit. now i've been dating her for about 2 weeks. at the start it was all good but one of her friends just comes back in her life out nowhere and keeps haning out with us whenever we go out anywhere and is just non-stop getting on my fucking nerves. and now i'm getting mixed signals of wether she wants to see me or not and it is frustrating x a bazillion.

anyway. advice/conversation is good haha XD

Haha! Sucks for you!

Well... Have you tried talking to your girl about how this friend makes you uncomfortable when they're around all the time? If you really don't like her friend, tell her that if she wants to hang out with her friend, that's fine, and to come see you when she's done.

You need to find out how she's feeling about you otherwise you're just wasting your time. If her friend is telling her things and THAT is the cause of the mixed feelings toward you, then that's retarded, because this friend just pops up out of nowhere, so he/she gets no opinion on your relationship with your girl.

Sounds like this relationship is fairly new, so maybe if you do end up cutting things off, you may be able to move on a little easier than, say, being in a relationship for 2 years or something.

If you do end up talking to her, don't make it seem like you hate her friend, just talk calmly and say that you would like to feel that you and her deserve more alone time without the possibility of her friend popping up.

yeah i've thought about that. i talked to a few of her other friends and apparently the bitch of a friend used to be her best friend, then dogged her for 3-4 years while seeing some dirtbag of a guy. and now that he's gone she has no other friends and is being very clingy. i'm just thinking that if i tell her it'll get back to her friend and she'll just brew up a shitstorm and try and get me to do something stupid.

That is really stupid. If your girl is more interested in helping her friend that ditched her for some loser, then let her. You don't need that. Let her know that when she's done making a stupid mistake, come see you.

why cant girls just be simple minded like us guys -_- that would make everything so much easier haha XD

Lol yes it would be simpler, but girls have to be like 10 times smarter than boys to make up for their lack of intelligence. ;)

simple minded + complex minded = Perfect union

Then again, guys have some qualities that girls do not have.

That's how me and Kaz are, complete opposites, but he has qualities that I don't, and I have some that he doesn't, so we equal each other out, fit together like a puzzle, I think. ><
Anyways, I'm the smart mind of our relationship. :D

I believe that 100% lol

if things dont work out i'm staying single again for as long as possible. It is too hard trying to find someone you think you'll have a lasting relationship with. + i find the only decent relationships i have are with people i havent known for long. its so much easier getting to know someone and getting to like eachother. my last relationship went for two years. the only reason i ended it was because my ex went behind my back and told all my friends to get fucked and leave me alone so she could spend more time with me. then for a while accused me of cheating on her and going out behind her back everyday while i was at work -_-

Well that's just an insecure, jealous biatch for you. :P Not all girls are like that though.

problems solved for now >< and everything is back to normal. i hate it when you get over being single for a long time and then when you're in a relationship again it just gets too confusing until you get used to everything again. blah.

Get a 12 gauge sawed off shotgun.

It will save you a lot of confusion, heartache and frustration.

Girls suck, tell her gf to stop being a lesbo and go away.

Oh, fresh meat in the real world? Welcome then!

Fasten your noose, and enjoy the ride!