Fluttery
 

I'm not sure where to begin. I went on a day-long date with a guy I know who is from NIU. I have a major crush on him. I'm kinda really wanting to get with him, but he's still going through a few things. But we have chemistry. I don't really want to get with him for the physical contact (ya know what I mean by that). I want to get with him for the companionship, to be there for him, to be with him. He's constantly on my mind and I really don't seem to care about that. I've felt this way, but to a much lesser extent, with John. But I don't know what it is that draws me so much to this guy. I see his imperfections, but because they are there, I think he's perfect. *sighs happily* Anything anyone wants to say, comment, maybe help me figure out why I feel this way.

I don't know how to help right now (thinking about it in the back of my head, maybe reply more later) but what's NIU?

NIU = Northern Illinois University. It's about an hour-hour and a half away from me.

Don't you think it's bad to get into a relationship like that? (Distance, and aren't you in High School?)

How did you two meet

Actually, we both agreed to go slow about it. We're not rushing into a relationship. We originally met through Pounced! and he came down a couple of times for LAFF events.

I'm sorry, what?

I met him through Furry events.

whats a furry event

Bowling, softball, etc. that involves furries hanging out and causing drama.

Explain these things, please?

LOL OMG! Soo classic! I love you Kagom.

Platonically, of course.

...Are you sure?

I'm hoping Grav's right =o

I've explained it somewhat already. http://img388.imageshack.us/img388/3766/fozzie5ta.jpg Just wanted to show you guys what he looks like.

Who wants to explain to him what a furry is?




And Kagom, good for you. I'm glad you found someone you like being around, especially after the previous drama-filled episodes you've had to deal with.

Uh, it's kinda hard to explain. The best thing to do is to look it up on Wikipedia and then ask how much of it I actually am involved with, etc.

Blah. Smoker. Major turn off.

Well, he is pretty furry...

I can compromise with smokers...that and the second hand smoke can calm me down O.o

so what is it please

He looks nice dude. Good luck and hope he treats u right

It is an abnormally hairy person.

Well, technicaly he could be either referring to the slang term for hairy gay men, or to this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom

The fandom bit. I'm not into every single aspect about it...I"m rather too vanilla for some furs.

Ew. Looks like a deuch(sp?) to me. If I were gay I'd be into very feminine guys. Or maybe thats just cause Im not gay... o_O

I'm more into the masculine/less effeminate guys. It fits my personality best.

For the love of god just die dude.

You first, I insist!

Dude, I must agree with you on this.