I believe so.

pr0xy FTW!!

VICTOLY

Sounds like an awesome date to me. Good job.

Well done Prox!

Hope the whole relationship goes well for ya.

Yeah, good job pr0xy.

My first 'real alone date' was actually after i had gone on many dates with lauren and her friends and my friends to the movies. We went to the movies but we had already done so much shit with eachother by then so that date doesnt even matter lol.

good job dude she does looks cute too

Wow, if the King thing is derived from "Kerry King"... I'll worship you.

I have no idea what you are talking about.

I think you should have said yes, thats exactly where its from.

Hey guys, on the subject of a movie for the first date. Just make sure you let them pick the movie. She is gonna come over and watch "The Notebook" sometime. And if you havn't seen it... I suggest you do, its a great movie. Its a huge chick flick but it is one of my favorites.

I saw that exact movie on a first date w/ a girl. Strange.

Sounds like he's the champ... congrats mate.

DAMN YIU BOTH BEAT ME TO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad:


oh and proxy........just a few pointers:

Good job on that walking to the pond thing.........I wouldnt have thought of that! I bet that made a very good impression on her.

Also, don't talk to her that much on aim or the phone.......in fact, the phone should only be used to set up meetings or just random "hi how are you"....convos shouldnt be more than 5 mins!

Online.....always say you're busy reading something and kinda ignore her a lil bit.....like reply after she send a few msgs.. ;)

You are winner, haw haw haw.

What chatroom was this again? HAHAHA ;)

O.o why? I want to be her friend more than anything... And after we have a strong friendship we will see what happens.

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You'd end up going crazy if you went to my school then. It seems to be the rule that you become very good friends with a girl before going out with them.

You get some really undeserving bastards somehow making friends and then going out with girls who deserve a hell of a lot better.

Wow. England is weird.

In a serious relationship your partner is supposed to be your best friend.

Hey... Alot of people when they break up arent friends afterwards becasue they weren't friends before. Also, it is very likely that you will end up marrying someone in your circle of friends rather than someone else. And hey... I would rather be her friend than her boy friend. I'm not one of those sex crazed guys :weird:

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Well actually in this situation you are abit off. You hold valid points however, she is currently recovering from a long relationship that went bad. I'm trying to be there for her whenever she needs me, as a friend. We are both very interested in eachother but at this point in time she told me flat out that she wasn't ready to get involved with someone yet. I accept that and therefore I am trying my hardest to be a good friend. I don't know what that night was... Because to tell you the truth, I'm also confused. But such is life right?

Edit: Her ex boyfriend is one of those shitbag types who no one likes. But she is still trying because she wants what she once had. I think it will take her a while to get over him, which is another reason why she doesnt want to be in a relationship with me right now. Not untill she can devote her whole heart to me.

NOoOOoooOO!! You're setting yourself up for a fall, here.

Ick. Seems to me like you're the rebound. Be extremely careful if you want this to work, and don't move in too quickly or things could get very ugly.

I was the rebound once.

I got the whole "I need time to get over this guy" thing too, and the guy was pretty much a douche for no reason. She still obviously cared for him though.

I got tired of waiting, and after some intimate moments I asked her out. I was turned down, saying she didn't want to get in a relationship rgiht now. Then she got together with a random guy like 3 weeks after I asked her out. -_-

STFU BEFORE I POST YOUR EMONESS ON THE FORUMS!

Eh dont worry about me guys... I really just want her to be happy... I just told surge on AIM that I won't let her just glance over me when the time comes, and I also wont pressure her into anything. We will just see how it goes. I'm laid back so hey, if it doesn't work... Tough luck right? I still made a friend out of it, and the more the merrier.

GravitonSurge: CRAWWWWWWWLING
GravitonSurge: INNNNNNNN
GravitonSurge: MY SKINNNNNNNN

These wounds wont seem to heal!



Proxy, you're just an AFC, AFCs never succeed....they just get used as emotional Tampoons! you must become an alpha male in order to make this bitch want you NOW! not when she sover her ex-shithead

FEAR IS HOW I FAAAAAAAAAAALL
CONFUSING WHAT IS REEEEEEEEEEEEEEAL

No thanks. Heh... We will see what happens wont we. So far I havn't been wrong with shit like this... But hey... Who knows.

"Her ex boyfriend is one of those shitbag types who no one likes." Is it me or this is not the first time i hear... or second ... or third time for that matter at this forum.

It's all a conspiracy against you, Ganga.

Be afraid.

But then again Proxy that was you first date ever. So... it doesn't seem like you have alot exp to judge from.

Just because that was the first time I ever went out with a girl to do something does not mean I don't know my share about relationships and love. I am constantly helping my friends out with their relationships and so far I have helped all the ones who were willing strengthen their relationships. But you are right, maybe I don't know what I am talking about. But, I can listen to my heart and still use my brain at the same time. I'm sure they wont guide me wrongly, they haven't yet. :)

Correct. I was just pointing out a point.

Definitely a good point, Kaneda.

Oh I know I know, and I'm very thankful for all the things you have been pointing out, and everyone else's thoughts, otherwise I wouldn't have made this.