what you do is, dont worry about her anymore, just work out and when she sees you get bigger she brobably want to get back together, then it will be YOUR choice agaon; take her back or screw her and get a better one.

Personally, i think you can do better shinto. But oh well. I gotta go get ready for work. Laterz

Maybe I missed this, but just how did you find out about all of this anyway, Shinto? Did she actually tell youshe cheated on you, or did you find out from someone else?

Never had a girl I "loved" and I don't know if I will have one...

If I did, I might commit suicide.

Pweeeeeeze!

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

ehh...well...if she didnt tell u b4 then u do deserve better dude. I thought she like just str8 up told u. Its up 2 u though

I had a talk with him last night, he's already over it and feeling a lot better. Always happy to help.

Heh.............


This girl that is a friend of my exand I had been flirting and stuff, i really like her but one of her friends likes me, i told her i like her and not her friend, we went out last week, she tells me she likes one of my friends.....I go like "WTF?" ok so Im gonna need you to make a choice....and shes like "I dont know, im confused"and has been like that since......ill call her tonight and see whats up

I would have already given up coz what she said, but i really like her :eek: im stupid like that........my friend doesnt even like her, he told her that he doesnt like her but she sitll likes him.....

Any advice on what i should do? i know its sad of me askign you , but oh well

ok...plz use names because i am lost

Hmm, I honestly don't understand where these people are getting all this "crushed for life" and "want to commit suicide" feelings from. We've all been screwed over in a relationship. I guess I was never "in love" but I didn't have all these extreme emotions like thoughts of suicide or killing them when it was over. Seriously, you guys scare me just a little bit. I've always been a jolly guy, I can usually shrug things off. I like to get a little payback first :D (in a joking way) but.. I don't know why I'm typing this. *shrug*

thants the reason us guys should go for the older women :-P

Be a man and move on until she makes her mind up. Make sure she knows that. Say like "Well, I'm not going to sit around while you're trying to make your mind up, until you do I'll be seeing other people, but if you do choose me, I would be willing to call it off with them for you." Easy peasy, jep n' easy.

Don't commit suicide.

that hurts man, ive never had it personally happen to me but im sorry that it had to happen to you and i know what you must be going through, but you have to show her that your fine without her.


oh and shinto how long did you go out with her?
and also people are saying about sex in here.. didnt you say in the past that your g/f wasnt planning on having sex til after marriage?

you dump her asap and dont look back no matter how much u want to or need to if she can do it once she can do it again and most likly will i mean can u ever truly trust her again ? its still up to you but i say no fuck it man u cant love some 1 who dosent love u it just dont work

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Good job shinto. Show her whos in control here.

yeah... now make her do more for u in this round to make up for what she did to you

If nothing else, make sure to shove some bottles of 40 up in there so she gets really loose and worthless.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

I wouldn't do it, Shinto. Even if she never cheats on you again, you'll always be paranoid. Then she'll get overly defensive about your well-founded paranoia, and she'll start leading you to belive that maybe she is cheating on you. It will only end badly. Just walk away.

i agree.....isn't there another person you want to go out with?? her sister, her best friend?

You really think if you forgive her she will have any respect left for you ? She will know that she can do it again.
If you stay with her it's gonna be nothing more then trouble.
Make out with her, have fun then kick her out.

Find a different girl, and the other one you were telling me about, use her just for fun, dont get into a relationship with her. She scares me.