No, Im 20... I just can't figure out why the mom has custody? If its her kid ???

Sounds to me like the childrens' mother is a fuck up in life so her mom got handed the responsibility. If I were the father of her children I'd probably take them too.

I'm not saying I know anything about their situation, but she named her kids after video game characters, and judging by her profile she thinks about nothing but video games and the internet.

I mean, she's 23, and her mother has custody of her children, there's not much else to assume from that.

That...is the saddest thing I have heard all week. Sadder than Hunsy's situation.

I know, it's kinda funny he didn't deny any of it aside from his age.

I am 23. My mom had custody because I gave it to her in hopes that it would help me to get my son back, because that meant there were custody papers and the police wouldn't tell me "well there is no custody set", but it obviously didn't help. I gave her custody just before my second try to go to CO and get him. Before that, there was no "custody". I knew that because I had already been through it with my first son when my ex-mother-in-law took my child and played car tag with him to keep him from me because she wanted him.

Well, not just that, but the fact he's 20. And that dumb.

If there was no custody, how did you give custody to your mother?

My mom HAD custody of ONE of my children, for the reason I just mentioned. The other I have custody of.

I am the top of my class in school, and I hardly have time for video games even if I wanted to play them often. In all honesty, I have played very few games.

Also, if I was fucked up or something, the times that my ex-mother-in-law called CPS on me in hopes that they would take Vincent and give him to her, they would have taken him. But, both times they came and said "this is all crazy".

I mean there were no legal papers stating custody. By all means, I had sole custody, but without papers to prove that, the police just tell you to fuck yourself. Apparently, even with papers, they do the same thing. Just like if someone take you to court to sue you, you are the one that has to prove it, they don't have to do anything. So, I call the police, and even if I had papers to state custody, and the father did as well, and I have the custody, he doesn't have to show the cops shit, I do.

Send it in to a major news network too >_>. Haha, really pisses authorities off when they get called out on T.V. =D.

Why are you such a dick-gobbling douchebag? You don't know this person, you're making half-assed assumptions. Grow up, asshole.

Vincent and Dante are badass names and I hope everything works out for you, Hunsy.

Does this mean you're giving up on Klo?

You poor thing! I hope everything gets resolved. The advice given is pretty sound on the forums.

From what I can deduce from your situation it seems to me like you have little choice if you want your son back. I can understand that it is not what you want to do. Going through the courts makes broken bonds absolutely unmendable, and it is a hassle on everyone, however your babies' father seems to be a complete jackass. Your sons deserve a mother. In my opinion, you should do everything in your power to get them back. If they want to play hardball, play hardball.

Good luck to you.

Yeah unfortunately I will probably have to go to court. God I hate courts and our legal system. I guess that is all that is left that is in my power now. Oh well, I guess if that is what it is really going to come down to then so be it. My kids deserve a father as well, I know that, and I never had any intentions of keeping him away from his family, but you are right, they also deserve a mother, and that is why I have been trying to get him back. I was just hoping for a better way.

Thanks eveyone, for your support. I really appreciate it.

You seem more qualified to raise them, anyways. Who knows if he abuses them or not?

Honestly, you don't know any better of her, either. The internet is wonderfully anonymous, we can't make serious judgements based on hearsay evidence.

What's the age-old saying now? "All girls on the internet are guys and all children are FBI agents"?

I honestly don't know, but I am not going to say he is any less qualified than I am to raise children. It has always been my opinion, however, that it is the mother's place to raise the children, unless otherwise discussed by the parties involved. That in no way means that I think the father should not be involved at all.

"On the internet, nobody knows you're a cat!" demonstrates it quite well too, I feel.

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Good luck with your situation, Hunsy.

Being a female doesn't make you any more qualified to raise a child than a male once a child is past breastfeeding. And really, breastfeeding isn't a necessity.