I never really understood what makes people go so overboard with that Jesus stuff. Anyway keep you head up dude. Shit always has a way of working out and the pain is forgotten after time. You'll be fine.

Eh, it happens, get over it.

I hate christians who are like that. I'm not a christian because I'm a thinking man and I believe in what I know. I know there is a supreme being. I don't know there was some guy who was all powerful and rose from the dead, and even if there were, I have no reason to worship him. Good for him.

Of course, people are always trying to convert me and I always find a way to prove them wrong about something. My near future female companion(not my girlfriend) is a fire and brimstone Johnathan Edwards type christian. We listened to one of his sermons in class and she actually agreed with him.

I like debating with her about it because she's very very stubborn about her ideas and it's fun when I'm right and she says she's right anyway. And she has a nice ass.

Way to turn this thread into you, bitch. No fucking shit I'll get over it, it's just gonna take some time. If you even knew how close we were, you'd understand.

I should probably comment on this since I have this happening to a friend right now.

He's in a "relationship" right now with some girl from Australia. They met over RO.

How? I will never know.

But he's happy, and from what it sounds like, she's happy too. Being a friend, I should also be happy, and I am... Somewhat. I'm mainly worried because he keeps talking about how she's the one.

All I can say is... She probably isn't. She's 16, the decisions she make, like coming to canada for university, getting a job to get plane tickets, aren't really valid. What if she doesn't? The more love you devote, the more hurt you get.

But talking about Thanatos' topic, if something about her bugs you, forget her. If it bugs you now, it isn't going to change later on. I might hurt now, but if you continue to have feelings for her, it's just going to continue to hurt.

Well well, why don't you just pitch a hissy fit then?

You're not the only person on this fucking earth who has broken up with someone they are really close to.

Go ahead and cry your tears and tell yourself you are so pitiful. Good luck growing up. You're 17 you stupid bitch, act like you've got some balls and get over it.

You don't think I realize that, KA? You don't think I realize how I'm not the only person that this has happened to? No shit, fucker. I can post about it if I fucking want to. I needed to vent. Have a problem with that? Get over it, crankshaft.

Yes, I cried but I never once called myself pitiful. And what the fuck did I just say? I said I would get over it, it was just going to take some time. You probably wouldn't know being a huge E-nerd and all. Once you fall in love with someone who you think you're going to spend the rest of your life with and then all of a sudden you break up, of course you're going to feel bad.

Class, welcome to 1st grade. Today we are going to learn about emotions! Hoorah!

I wouldn't know that, I'm still with mine for 3 years last thursday. I was just sharing my input, which I can do if I want to, and if you've got a problem with it you can do something about it instead of whining about it. You suggested that you two take a break and now you're acting all pitiful like she just cheated on you with your best friend or something.

That break turned into a break up. So, I feel a little shitty. I feel enraged when it comes to why we broke up. It makes no fucking sense to me.

The point I'm trying to make is, if somebody is feeling bad it doesn't do much good when you kick them when they are down. If this happened to you, I woudln't give you shit over it. I'd respond the way everyone else has. Don't be so goddamn hateful.

I don't see where I did anything to you really. You started bitching at me for sharing my input which was not mean to you in any way.

Whoa, BONEr.

Anyway, if your girlfriend wants you to change for her, then maybe you two weren't meant to be.

That's what I came to realize. If she can't accept me for who I am, than tough shit.

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

I totally agree with Shinto in both of his posts.

When you have a relationship, it should be with someone like you and not someone who is trying to change who you are. If you lke to go out and drink and smoke pot and stuff then find someone who also does that. Then you will truly be happy.

thanatos, i jsut have to say, im really sorry, and i hope you two can work it out

Bkeh, I sit behind her in Econ. It was really awkward. I know eventually that she'll come around because she's really depended on me being there for her. But, by that time I may be with someone else.

There's this girl at work who has stated that she would, "Like a boyfriend like me." and "You are sooooo cute!" and "Ohmygawd, you are so sweet." She also smokes pot. We would get a long very, very well. I just don't think I'm ready for anyone else right now, though.

Yeah, don't mess with her right now, but don't let her get the idea you aren't interested. You have to wait a few weeks, at the very least after a break up like that. I'd say 3 weeks to a month, then if you two aren't back together, see if that chick wants to grab lunch or something small like that.

Yes... grab lunch...

Or maybe a nice hard cock.