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JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 08:56 PM
I have kind of gotten myself into some fucked up shit so I will start from the begining please give me some advice!

about 5 months ago I went to this dance and got really close to this girl that night her name is Pou
well we talked and she was like everything I seemed to need
we went outside and spent some "quality" time together and I could have swore I fell in love with her that night and many of the feelings still linger...

a couple days later she told me she had to move to california and that she didn't want to go so we spent that night together and we stayed close for a while after writing letters and making plans to see each other ,
well I happened to ruin that when I started doing red devils again and she found out she told me if I ever did them again that she would do something stupid and I just recently found out that it was due to my actions that I made her cry straight for a week and become depressed (also she started to drink)

after a while started to get used to her being gone and hopped up on the love game again when like about 2 months ago me and this girl edith have started to get closer (edith happens to be pou's first cousin) well me and her have been doing so much together and I can tell we are starting to fall for each other. all is well until me and Pou talked on the phone last night and I let her know I finally quit red devils and I began to talk to her about the boy she is seeing down there (her sister told me earlier all about her street racer boyfriend) and she denied it then she asked me to hold on and went to her sister (I could hear everything but she didn't know I could) and started yelling at her about why she told me and that she is going to break up with him when she comes back up here (Utah) and then we talked some more and she told me that she will be coming up here today and that she should be here about 2 am (she told me to stay up and coem see her when she gets here) she told me all htis yesterday and today I learned she is going to be staying with edith while she is here...

I have a lot of feelings for both of these girls and seriously don't know what to do
the only plan I have so far is when Pou gets here goto her and let edith see and then see how she reacts and only by that would I be able to know which one I want more but I do not know if I could do that to edith and I don't know if I can stop myself from telling pou how I feel about her cousin (edith)
One of my main problems is that Pou might be staying here and she might be going back

so plz give your input

!King_Amazon!
2002-08-10, 09:09 PM
Pou, is that pronounced poo or pow?

Stick with Edith, Pou doesn't seem all that interested in you now. Edith lives near you(I think) and Pou lives in cali. What is a red devil anyway?

Sum Yung Guy
2002-08-10, 09:18 PM
red devil is a drug...... hmmm johnny which one did you feel the best with? think about if pou left again it wouldnt be as much as a relationship as edith
Edith is your girl. But if you spent some time with Pou.. no one would have to know?

!King_Amazon!
2002-08-10, 09:20 PM
SYG, You're horrible

Sum Yung Guy
2002-08-10, 09:30 PM
Thats a quote worth keeping

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 09:49 PM
I like the way you think but I like both of them to much to do somethign like that plus they would find out there related then no more girl for me :(
it's prononced like Beau or Bo

!King_Amazon!
2002-08-10, 09:51 PM
Pou=bo, so wou=wo=woah, so Pou=bo...wou!

I LOVE THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE!

Sum Yung Guy
2002-08-10, 09:57 PM
i dont think those are English names... well Pou atleast.. is she polynesian Johnny?

!King_Amazon!
2002-08-10, 09:59 PM
Who cares what language it is?? I LOVE IT!

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 10:00 PM
Yeah threse are both Polynesian girls the other ones Tongan name is Titi Mine is Asaeli

!King_Amazon!
2002-08-10, 10:02 PM
Originally posted by JohnnyTAE
Yeah threse are both Polynesian girls the other ones Tongan name is Titi Mine is Asaeli

I love the language but I don't understand it..

Jamesadin
2002-08-10, 10:15 PM
well, Pou would be harder to saty with, but if she stayed, she would the the girl. But since she isnt I say stay with Edith.

Kidagakash
2002-08-10, 10:42 PM
seems to me that Pou lied to you. willingly lied to you, you where never to know about her street racer friend, do you think she would have told you? humm.. ironic what Sum said about none has to know, seems it would have happoned that way in the frist place, honestly i know little of what im talking about. so im sory i prbly cant offer anything :-\

(god forbit i get the names mixed up :-\ sorry if i do)

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 10:51 PM
I know the fact that she lied to me the thing that I am confused for is why, it's not like she was trying to hurt me it was more like she didn't want to hurt her chances with me (see that's why I am so confused)

and don't apologize about anything I bet you can give better advice then many of the other guys around here because you already made me look more closely at something I thought was a good sign

my Main prob right now is not doing something with Pou I want too but then I start to think about how much I care for Edith it just seems wrong

Strider Fury
2002-08-10, 11:08 PM
go with one of them and never look back. cause if you do, you are only going to creat more jealouscy and you are going to end up finding yourself seeing both of them and you will eventually lose them both. Edith an Pou both sounds pretty nice and sincere, but the fact remains that you have to choose one and stick with your dicision.

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 11:13 PM
Only if emotions didn't mangle the mind so...
the hard thing about that is there family so whichever I choose I will still be around the other a lot and I dunno if I could say no if you know what I mean
but I dunno it's all weird

Strider Fury
2002-08-10, 11:16 PM
you have to choose one jonny. since you did made Pou cried and she was you first out of the two, it would seems more right to go with here and i'm sure Edith would understand if you explain it to her. after all they are sisters.

ViciousMilitia
2002-08-10, 11:21 PM
fucking dude that's some heavy shit

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 11:24 PM
Cousins not sisters lol
and thats the thing either way one of em is gonna endup getting hurt by me :(

Strider Fury
2002-08-10, 11:32 PM
i'm cant make this dicision for you johnny and no one else can but its either Edith going home broken hearted or Pou ending up with a drinking disorder (and a broken heart).

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-10, 11:34 PM
Yeah I see what you mean, maybe it's time to drop both of them and aim for something else...

would be hard but, Nevermind I couldn't do it

tacoX
2002-08-11, 10:00 AM
Well, convince Pou (or whatever) that its normal to have different girl friends, in different states. Also try to convince her that shes bi, so she will fuck you and her cousin (even tho thats kinda jerry springer) and all will be good ;).

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-11, 10:56 AM
LoL I'm not even down to do that

tacoX
2002-08-11, 11:29 AM
Do it man! I tried to do it with one of my old girl friends, but it dident work.

But since you have the 'stoners' charm, I bet you can get it done ;)

Hell Hound
2002-08-11, 12:00 PM
Originally posted by tacoX
Well, convince Pou (or whatever) that its normal to have different girl friends, in different states. Also try to convince her that shes bi, so she will fuck you and her cousin (even tho thats kinda jerry springer) and all will be good ;).

sick but interesting idea

Jamesadin
2002-08-11, 12:09 PM
Just tell her that you liked Edith while she was gone so youve grown a liking to her, but now that your back you want to go for her too. But once she leaves youll go back to edith. Hopefully shell understand

!King_Amazon!
2002-08-11, 02:16 PM
Talk to them. Explain your problem. They will either help you or kill you(gamble?) I think the best thing you can do is find someone else though :-/

mightychicken
2002-08-11, 08:53 PM
Give one of em a dirty sanchez. chicks love that/

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-11, 08:59 PM
Originally posted by Jamesadin
Just tell her that you liked Edith while she was gone so youve grown a liking to her, but now that your back you want to go for her too. But once she leaves youll go back to edith. Hopefully shell understand

I like this idea might just work

Originally posted by mightychicken
Give one of em a dirty sanchez. chicks love that/

fuck no

Jamesadin
2002-08-11, 09:17 PM
its good that you like my idea

Grav
2002-08-12, 09:21 AM
What the hell, this is like a story on Lifetime. I dont know how you ended up with her cousin, thats like rediculous.

Usually I can think my way out of any situation but this is a big load of jeebus and I can't think of a single thing to help you out here, but you should stop doing the red, capiche?


ARGH READING IT OVER AGAIN ITS JUST MAKING MY HEAD HURT MORE KIDA PASS THE JACK DANIELS

tacoX
2002-08-12, 09:25 AM
sexxor them both at once, then make your choice?

Grav
2002-08-12, 09:26 AM
Originally posted by mightychicken
Give one of em a dirty sanchez. chicks love that/

Originally posted by tacoX
sexxor them both at once, then make your choice?

That's not really helping.. try to be serious.

NitrousOxide
2002-08-12, 09:51 AM
They're right Jr, Edith is your girl! I think you should just tell Pou to go back to her "Street Racer Boyfriend" or whoever. So let it be known to Edith that you want her.

NitrousOxide
2002-08-12, 09:57 AM
Hey tacoX, that would be great if Tae got both Pou and Edith in bed, then he'd be in Heavan already!

Jamesadin
2002-08-12, 11:01 AM
I dont know if they would agree to that

WetWired
2002-08-12, 11:34 AM
Not that I claim to have much experience in these things, but sounds to me like Pou was trying to keep secrets from you, and if there is anything that will ultimately wreck that kind of relationship, it's secrets.
On a completely different swing, she already knows that you know she was going with a different guy, so that would help explain why you are going with someone else.

Unfortunately, no matter what you do, the fact that they are cousins will undoubtedly be trouble for quite some time.

Ultimately, this is your decision, I'm just pointing out some things.
--WetWired

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-12, 05:39 PM
Thanxz everyone for all the advice I am gonna think about this a bit then I decided to talk to Pou first and tell her how I feel about Edith then take it from there ....

Strider Fury
2002-08-13, 02:29 PM
good luck johnny.

Sirpullido
2002-08-13, 02:51 PM
Whatever u choose...Don't look back and try not to think "with X it would've been better".
BTW, my choice'd be edith, just bcos Lies never come alone and I think a relationship of that kind shall be based in sincerity, nevermind if u hurt when telling a truth,sooner or later it'll be found out


BTW...Ur crazy or what???? Cousins....

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-13, 08:47 PM
I got good news Edith just told me that Pou's family delayed there plans of coming back


now this makes things a bit easier

Hades-Knight
2002-08-14, 12:48 PM
wow lol it seems like taken from a book!!! rofl

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-20, 09:58 PM
Originally posted by Knight-Rider
wow lol it seems like taken from a book!!! rofl

well to make the story even better Edith called and told me tonight that Pou wanted to talk to me so I called Pou and we talked for a little while and guess what...


I am sending her a bus ticket on friday :confused:

well she said she will make it worthwhile so... hmmm

JRwakebord
2002-08-20, 10:39 PM
its like a goddamn soap opera. lol.

go with edith. u seem to really care for her, and once the lies/cheating starts, it doesnt stop. spare urself

Hades-Knight
2002-08-21, 01:45 PM
so , is pou there yet? did you resolve yoru dilemma? will there be another episode? will jhonny die from a over dosis(misspelled)?

stay tuned for the next episode of :


When the stoners attack!... err


Zelaron Soap Opera(copyright 2002-2003- all rights reserved, zelaron is a tardemark of zelaron.inc)

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-21, 04:56 PM
Originally posted by Knight-Rider
so , is pou there yet? did you resolve yoru dilemma? will there be another episode? will jhonny die from a over dosis(misspelled)?

stay tuned for the next episode of :


When the stoners attack!... err


Zelaron Soap Opera(copyright 2002-2003- all rights reserved, zelaron is a tardemark of zelaron.inc)


Hah! Stoners huh, just consider yourself less experniced in life because I have tried out all possibilities of Highness ( not really but enough) and now I am back to myself (I quit a while ago) so it's when Polynesians go mad not when stoners attack and I am buying the bus ticket friday and sending it to her the same day for pou to come up and visit (Why I am not sure but we talked on the phone and I am the type of person thats very giving so I agreed to it plus she said she would make it worth it) but I still have feelings for edith so... life is jus shitty bout now

Hades-Knight
2002-08-21, 05:02 PM
sounds like theres gonna be an orgy, if you dotn mind can you send me an airplane ticket too?

JohnnyTAE
2002-08-21, 05:30 PM
Originally posted by Knight-Rider
sounds like theres gonna be an orgy, if you dotn mind can you send me an airplane ticket too?

Sorry man I am gonna keep all the fun for myself :D
But I have a feeling the fun is gonna be very limited due to the conditions and emotions