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osmoses-jones
2009-02-07, 10:39 PM
I like this girl at work i try to talk to her about it but i am a shy person infront of girls. SO, help me out how you guys how can i express my feeling to her.

JRwakebord
2009-02-07, 11:35 PM
The classic method of asking her to get a drink with you after work always works. Low pressure situation, outside of the workplace, and you'll both be more relaxed. You can talk about anything when you're both in a more social mindset.

KagomJack
2009-02-08, 10:34 AM
Muslims are not supposed to drink alcohol, though that depends on devout they are.

But that is a good suggestion. Ask her if she wants to go out for a drink or to go see a movie. Or even just try starting simplistic, get-to-know-you conversations and see how it goes from there.

HandOfHeaven
2009-02-08, 10:53 AM
Along with what JR and KJ said, maybe get a group of people that you work with to go with you so that she can get used to you in a social setting. This way, if there was any awkwardness at all, it would be easier to ask just her out for a drink. This suggestion is only if she doesn't feel comfortable going with just you at first. Only flaw is that another co-worker may swoop in.

Willkillforfood
2009-02-12, 09:40 AM
First off, always, ask her if she hates queers. If that goes well, then you two have common ground. A relationship is imminent at this point.

JRwakebord
2009-02-12, 07:30 PM
What the fuck?