dilema

[talentedhamster]

yea, i know i probably spelled that wrong. but that's not the point.

Ok so basically, for the past few months, things haven't been that good. At all. But yesterday and the day before that were just so unbelievably amazing, and I actually am genuinely happy. More than I've been in a long time. And I want it to stay like this, I really do.

But here's the problem, I am really happy, but I feel like I shouldnt. Some bad shit has happened also. My good friend is in the hospital. I don't know too many details or anything, but it's not that good. Also, my parents got their taxes done and we somhow lost or were denied $8,000. Again, I don't know too many details but we're not in a good place right now.

Is it wrong for me to be happy? I mean i've just been having such a great time lately and it's been MONTHS since i could say i truly was happy. And yea, I feel bad, but am I a bad person for not being more upset? Should I stop being happy and worry about my friend or my family?

[Adrenachrome]

I think you should enjoy your happiness as long as possible. Just don't rub it in for those who would expect you to be unhappy in those circumstances.

[Atnas]

Never worry. There is no point in worrying if otherwise you feel happy. Happiness is :)

Don't deny yourself the pleasure of feeling good for the sake of mock empathy.

[NonGayMan]

Nah it's never wrong to be happy. I don't know why you would want to be sad, even if bad things are happening. You should be glad you are happy imo.

[KagomJack]

Word. That's exactly waht I'd say.

[D3V]

No way. Be as happy as you can, it makes you live longer, and you being young shouldn't have to burden other people in your life's problems, you have your own shit to deal with, honestly. I mean it is okay to care for, and be concerned about others, but don't let it become your problem, yah know?

Always keep your chin up, as said above even if shit gets bad you should always remain positive and find the best in things.

[talentedhamster]

thanks guys =]. i'm actually being toldby my friends that i'm a bad person though for ''not caring about anyone else''. its so friggin retarded. apparently i'm a selfish bitch now. fuck it. i quit.

[Thanatos]

You're too emotional.

[talentedhamster]

fuck you.

[D3V]

Doesn't sound like a friend much to me. If any of my friends ever called me a selfish bitch I wouldn't talk to them probably ever again, atleast that or tell them they are giving me correct or even helpful criticism, a friend is somebody that helps you out when you are troubled or need help, not tell you that you are wrong and leave it at that.

Here's a good song for you...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7eLQRYldFos&feature=related

[talentedhamster]

i dont know she's crazy. it's just like, when you already are debating weather or not your doing the right thing and then someone tells you your wrong its just wierd. i mean she's retarded, and shruti is out of the hospital. she's still not doing too well, but at least she's home. w.e.

[Thanatos]

I'm being serious. You let your emotions get the best of you. Just take a minute, sit back, and think "Do I really need to get this worked up over something so trivial?" 9/10 you probably don't.

[D3V]

Definately have a point here, usually people that get emotional about shit it's something that shouldn't be taken seriously to begin with, it's just like drama, most drama is caused by something that is irrelevant, which is why I just avoid both generally.

[JRwakebord]

If you're happy, be happy. Take care not tu rub it in, and enjoy life.