so what do you do when...

[AmBam]

youre a senior in high school, your boyfriends an alcoholic who cant keep a job for more then a few months, and as your debating if your relationship with him is really worth all the trouble....




BAM
you find out your pregnant...
i do love him, but what kind of a boyfriend leaves his pregnant girlfriend at home on a friday night (that she took off so they could spend time together) so that he can go to the fucking bar all night to "see his friends band play"...

and his great excuse is, "you know if you were old enough to go i would take you, its not my fault..."

:x

hmmm,
::sighs::

i really know how to pick 'em
















grrrr.......FRUSTRATION

[Thanatos]

Wow. Sounds like you've dug yourself a hole there. I would say you need to ditch him, but with you being pregnant and all you kinda need somebody there to support you. What's he say about you being pregnant?

[klo]

don't get pregnant in high school.

best advise possible..... and if you are pregnant look at your priorities, YOUR BABY. Not the lame that made it. If he's going to put you through shit, get rid of him, you nor the baby need it.

[Willkillforfood]

You aren't in a place in your life for a baby, but Klo pulled it off so can you I suppose. He sounds like a bum ...you should have been able to tell that before you hooked up with him or at least soon after. Unless you get an abortion you're stuck dealing with him for another 18.6 years or so. Might as well get comfy.

[-Spector-]

Damn.

I'd say find someone better and get rid of that fuck... doesn't sound like he's going to put much effort into having a kid if he can't even put any into the original relationship..

I've only seen him like once (When you both were at the school last year) and haven't talked to him or else I'd try and give you better advice on this one :-/

[!King_Amazon!]

I'd say get ready for hard times. Sucks for you, shouldn't have failed at life. Have fun never getting anywhere and being a failure for the rest of your life. Sorry!

[Sweetesthunni]

Thats some nice advice K_A.

Your an ass.

[!King_Amazon!]

What else is there to say? She obviously needs to lose the dude, but that's complicated because she's carrying his child. The best answer would be lose the loser and have an abortion, and she could actually get her life back, but without an abortion she's at best going to have a lot of hard times.

Although, I do have some practical advice. Whatever you do, finish high school. You're nearly there, and not finishing high school will just make everything that much harder.

[Sweetesthunni]

Not saying she should of done it, or that she shouldnt leave her boyfriend..But i dont think her having an abortion is right, nor do i think you giving her shit about it, and telling her she failed at life is either. Obviously she knows she made a mistake..lol

[Grav]

Get an abortion. Srsly.

[!King_Amazon!]

Not saying she should of done it, or that she shouldnt leave her boyfriend..But i dont think her having an abortion is right, nor do i think you giving her shit about it, and telling her she failed at life is either. Obviously she knows she made a mistake..lol
Well I'm personally against abortion, but right now she's got the choice of not having an abortion and having a baby which is an 18 year commitment and costs a lot of money which she likely doesn't have if she's a senior in high school. She'll have to depend on both her boyfriend who sounds like an ass and her parents, which isn't fair to her parents.

I'm against abortion, but it's the most practical choice, by far, if you put aside the ethical aspect.

[Kaneda]

I already sent her a private message asking for it in a jar.
Sic.:(

[!King_Amazon!]

I don't even know what you're talking about, strange one.

[kaos]

Without reading anything in this thread: Slit your wrists.

EDIT: After reading the last paragraph: Slit his wrists.

And juice him for eugh...child support.

[Demosthenes]

So what do you do when...you're pregnant

http://markmaynard.com/media/hanger.jpg

[Willkillforfood]

I'm sorry but I'd probably get an abortion if I was a girl. Not only does having a child reduce your life expectancy, but it's really going to consume a good piece of your life and you're going to be at a serious advantage as far as making any good cash or meeting a decent daddy. Don't pay attention to what Hunni or whoever else is saying, just whatever you feel is right.

[micdawg12]

I'd say get ready for hard times. Sucks for you, shouldn't have failed at life. Have fun never getting anywhere and being a failure for the rest of your life. Sorry!



that is the most brutally honest thing i have ever seen...good job KA, you are actually man enough to say what most people wont....



but in all honesty, i got a chick knocked up when i was 18....she had an abortion, it honestly saved both of our lives...( although she was 27, and had been jobless for like a year ) i usualy dont believe in them...but there are certian curcumstances (sp?) that these are meant to be....


get an abortion, drop the loser, and get your life ontrack, you will find a better man, who can treat you right, and support you and your family... you dont need to be caught up in a relationship like that, you and your baby should be his priority, not his friends band and the bar, thats fucking bullshit

[Thanatos]

KA isn't "man enough" to do anything. He's just an asshole.

[!King_Amazon!]

I won't deny it.

[klo]

[QUOTE=Willkillforfood] it's really going to consume a good piece of your life QUOTE]


your WHOLE life, after having a child, nearly NOTHING matters anymore. I couldn't have an abortion. I feel that if i couldn't care for a child I would give it up for adoption, obviously I stuck with it and grew 10 years in 1. It depends a lot on your character and wants from life. How old is the sperm donor?

[Kaneda]

:rolleyes:
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:rolleyes:

[Vault Dweller]

The "ditch the asshole" advice is the best I've seen here.
I can't really give advice on the whole baby factor. I do think Klo is right, though; depending on your own character, actually having a child may prompt a life-altering growth in maturity. On the other hand, you could just turn out to be a crappy parent, so maybe you don't want to risk that. I don't know you, so I can't say what would actually happen in such a circumstance. You're the only person who has the right to make that judgement.

But, yeah, ditch the asshole.

[!King_Amazon!]

Even as far as parenting, it's more practical right now to wait until you've got some college done and a decent job rather than have a baby as a senior in high school with a most likely mediocre dead end job if any job at all.

[Willkillforfood]

Good luck either way.

[Grav]

http://m.assetbar.com/uua4MNJN8.gif

[Sweetesthunni]

No Abortion...

Mabey put it up for adoption?

[Grav]

I love that I am belittling the fact that somewhere in the world, young women are experiencing serious trauma over life ruining illegitimate pregnancies.

[HandOfHeaven]

Go Grav?

[Thanatos]

Yeah. You're the man.

[Chruser]

Text

You say that like it's a bad thing.

[Grav]

Oh, go impregnate yourself.

[HandOfHeaven]

Ha Ha Ha.

[Kaneda]

Just get really fuuuuuuuckked up before the abortion. If that doesn't fly here, then just go down south of the border. There are some great doctors down there for really cheap too.

[Willkillforfood]

Where the hell did you learn about this or are you kidding? lol

[AmBam]

he says hes really happy, but hes not really doing what he needs to to make this work...

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go fuck yourself,

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lmao...thats fucking funny

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hes 22

[D3V]

And how old are you?

[AmBam]

im 18

[klo]

hahaha CRAZY. I was also 18, and kaneda was 22.

anyways, he was excited at first as well, changed his mind about 7 mos in...read previous posts for "catch up", then when she was here...something changed him again and now he's a great dad and man :).

but while he's treating you like shit, cut him out. either he'll wake up or you'll do it on your own. we never discussed..how far along are you? even able to have an abortion anymore?

[Demosthenes]

DEATH TO THE FETUS!

Actually I'm against killing fetuses. I'm for killing babies, though...

[Willkillforfood]

I found your shirts, MJ.

http://store.theworstpageintheuniverse.com/shirts.html#REGRESSIVE

[Thanatos]

I'm going to order the Babies Blow shirt. Great shit.

[Demosthenes]

ROFL! Awesome. /ordered

[Willkillforfood]

I'm thinking of getting the failed parent one for my friend.

[D3V]

I found your shirts, MJ.

http://store.theworstpageintheuniverse.com/shirts.html#REGRESSIVE


What's crazy is I can view the maddox store, but not the main site. Fuck websense.

[Grav]

Well, they are different domains...

[Vault Dweller]

http://theworstpageintheuniverse.com/images/bonersrule_small1.jpg

Ha! Brilliant!

[!King_Amazon!]

That's from his book, The Alphabet of Manliness.

[KagomJack]

However, living with him would be a bad environment for you and your baby. It's hard to do, but try to figure out something. Talk to your parents, friends, etc. You don't need to keep that kind of cretin in your life at all. And did you guys use protection, if you don't mind me asking.

[HandOfHeaven]

I think she should slowly poison him with antifreeze.

[Kaneda]

What the fuck HoH? Is it just natural instinct for you to suck e-ass to every "girl" you see on the internet? Your a dude and an alcoholic you should be able to put yourself in his position man.

[Grav]

Only douchebags stand up for douchebags.

[Willkillforfood]

Cheer up

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ra70q98_DDE

[Kaneda]

LOL!


Listen, all I'm saying is you don't know his side of the story at all and in all seriousness I don't know how in touch you are with the female psychi Grav but all logic runs out the door when emotions come into play. So lets not play the awww you poor girl routine, because obviously if that was the case it's highly doubtfull she would be in her current position.

[Grav]

Do you feel like you were "trapped" into having a child?

[Kaneda]

Sidestep.

[HandOfHeaven]

It was a joke. Not getting enough at home, now are we, Kaneda?

I basically have pussy on tap, so there's no need to look on the internet. Besides, AmBam is probably a 45 year old guy just looking to satisfy his social needs on the internet. I'm sorry you don't think my giving out the number from that God-awful Tommy Tutone song and asking a/s/l it funny, but you need to shut the fuck up.

I'm hardly an alcoholic. Apart from my finals week of being drunk 24/7, going through 25 hydrocodone, and smoking 1/2 oz. of marijuana, I'm a sober person. Besides, I can function when I'm drunk and fucked up. I scored 50/50 on my lab final, 92/100 on my environmental science final, 90/100 on my history final, and a 95/100 on my critical thinking final, and managed to work 20 hours (had to cut my work in half to study). Don't be a douchebag and start trashing me when you know it's a waste of your time. Honestly, you're retarded and a failure. Don't mock me because you envy me. Fuck off.


Just realized it's my favorite time, 12:51. It's a shame I quit smoking pot.

[Thanatos]

You make me laugh.

[Grav]

HoH is a loser.
Kaneda is a loser.
Thanatos is a loser.
GravitonSurge does not exist.

[Thanatos]

You make me hate.

[HandOfHeaven]

I was not talking to you. Why don't you go watch some football or get fucked up, hmm? That's all you seem to be good at. Douchetard.

[Thanatos]

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.

As stated before, you make me laugh.