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KagomJack
2007-08-23, 02:49 AM
He had a stroke tonight. As of now I just know he's not stabilized and they've not been updated on his condition in 45 minutes. Craig didn't want me to come with him to the hospital, so I have to go off what he's telling me. I'm really worried about him since this guy took me into his home and tried to help me find a job. He's been so nice to me and treated me like I was apart of his family. He even calls me "Uncle J-P" to his granddaughter.

Keep him in your hearts and prayers, please.
Sovereign
2007-08-23, 05:07 AM
That sucks. Hope he pulls through.
KagomJack
2007-08-23, 12:53 PM
Right now they think the cancer that he had had may have spread to his brain and that may have been what triggered the stroke, but he may have nerve damage. Craig's still asleep right now, so I don't know much more than that.
Vault Dweller
2007-08-23, 01:16 PM
Sorry to hear that, man. Best wishes.
D3V
2007-08-23, 01:17 PM
Yep, you all have my prayers.
Willkillforfood
2007-08-23, 01:38 PM
One of my ex's mothers had a stroke because of cancer =(. That sucks. I wish him the best of luck. He sounds like a nice guy.
KagomJack
2007-08-23, 10:33 PM
Well, his condition's not changed. Can't move or talk, but he can look around. That's really about it. They're still not sure what caused the stroke. :/
D3V
2007-08-24, 10:29 AM
Let us know when he's stabalized, oh and a question I don't want taken the wrong way...


Is he okay with his son being gay? Not that it has to do with anything or not..
klo
2007-08-24, 11:07 AM
Apparantly not.
KJ was talking about how nice he is to him, so i'm sure its not a big deal.
D3V
2007-08-24, 11:09 AM
Oh ok, it's not like he just told his dad he was gay or something and that may have caused it, guess not..

Hope he pulls through KJ.
NyxianaSpades
2007-08-24, 03:19 PM
I hope everything comes out all right... I'll keep him in my "Prayers" sweetie keep hope
KagomJack
2007-08-24, 05:07 PM
Positive update!

His dad can respond, just not talk. He can smile, nod, etc. :)
Willkillforfood
2007-08-24, 05:10 PM
Well, at least he's making progress. Hopefully his areas handling speech and all that kick in now.
KagomJack
2007-08-24, 05:59 PM
Can only hope.
HandOfHeaven
2007-08-24, 07:16 PM
Kick that doctor in the crotch.
KagomJack
2007-08-26, 09:48 PM
They pulled the plug on him today. We don't know exactly when he's going to go, but we just know he is.
D3V
2007-08-27, 06:28 AM
That's so sad, is the brain activity too low or something?
KagomJack
2007-08-27, 01:12 PM
Brain's so swollen that even if he was stabilized, he'd be a vegetable.
HandOfHeaven
2007-08-27, 01:44 PM
I like vegetables.

That would suck.
klo
2007-08-27, 02:15 PM
Not funny.

sorry kj
HandOfHeaven
2007-08-27, 03:06 PM
I felt bad so I put it would suck. You laughed. :P
KagomJack
2007-08-29, 12:15 AM
Well, there's no hope or chance of recovery. Kinda bleh...
Vault Dweller
2007-08-29, 12:57 AM
Sorry to hear that, dude.

Condolences.
KagomJack
2007-08-29, 01:21 AM
I've never truly lost someone that I considered myself really close to. Came close once or twice, but never fully happened. I'm not suffering as much as I'm sure my boyfriend and his mom are. THey've both been really strong about all this and I'm honestly proud of them.
klo
2007-08-29, 01:26 PM
Nope, not even a little.
KagomJack
2007-08-31, 12:08 AM
He passed today at 8:15 PM my time. He will be missed.
HandOfHeaven
2007-08-31, 07:40 AM
Hope your dude ain't taking it too hard. My condolences. Sorry if the joke was inapropriate, but I'll be that guy bringing in laughter when my pops dies.
klo
2007-08-31, 08:01 AM
yea, fuck you.

I'm sorry KJ. I've never been close to anyone who's died. Only person was a guy i dated for a while back in the day, he died in a car accident last year.
Willkillforfood
2007-08-31, 08:55 AM
Hopefully your bf handles it okay. I know my last serious gf's mother died and she actually got changed a lot to the positive ...made her grow up a little.
Willkillforfood
2007-08-31, 10:24 AM
That's a tragedy bro and I wish you and your bf luck. Don't mind those two immature fucks. They'll kill themselves through oding or some other fun method eventually.
Thanatos
2007-08-31, 11:19 AM
I was laughing because I can't believe kaos said that, not because it was funny.

And last time I checked, you can't OD on marijuana.

Sincerely,
Immature Fuck.
KagomJack
2007-08-31, 11:28 AM
He's taking it fine. He had his breakdown before he died and he's made his peace. A little humor goes a long way, espcially when someone you care about dies. When my grandfather died, my uncle broke the silence by talking about his (my grandfather) favorite kind of pickles.

I appreciate everyone's sentiments, it's very much appreciated.