KagomJack
2006-11-01, 09:26 PM
Life's going. I'm enjoying my life in California as far as I've gone so far. It's beautiful out here, people are friendly, and I love the job I have (gonna probably get a second one which I'll love too as it may seem). My boyfriend, for 90% of the time, is wonderful, funny, and very caring.
But that brings up my post. I'm trying to get him to do more togetherness. It's kinda like he only feels like doing it once in a while and it's fun, but I'd like it a tad more. I've asked him to do things with me (watch a movie, etc.) and he's blown me off each time to play video games or chat online. And each time it's made me absolutely angry. His excuse last night for not watching a movie was "I'm not in the mood," which to me was a cop-out considering I do things with him when I'm not in the mood. Then he gave me a better explanation about the movie needing to be formatted (which it did) and that was okay, but I told him he should've told me that instead. TOnight I told him straight-up that I want him to spend some more time with me, regardless of whether it's only a few minutes or longer.
The biggest thing that I brought up was the fact that I don't ask him for much at all. I try not to be clingy and I try not to be the psycho in the relationship who wants to be around the other person 24/7 (though, technically, I do that anyways since I live with him) and I try to be as low-maintenance as I possibly can be.
I just needed to regurgitate that out. Thanks for putting up with it for those who read it.
But that brings up my post. I'm trying to get him to do more togetherness. It's kinda like he only feels like doing it once in a while and it's fun, but I'd like it a tad more. I've asked him to do things with me (watch a movie, etc.) and he's blown me off each time to play video games or chat online. And each time it's made me absolutely angry. His excuse last night for not watching a movie was "I'm not in the mood," which to me was a cop-out considering I do things with him when I'm not in the mood. Then he gave me a better explanation about the movie needing to be formatted (which it did) and that was okay, but I told him he should've told me that instead. TOnight I told him straight-up that I want him to spend some more time with me, regardless of whether it's only a few minutes or longer.
The biggest thing that I brought up was the fact that I don't ask him for much at all. I try not to be clingy and I try not to be the psycho in the relationship who wants to be around the other person 24/7 (though, technically, I do that anyways since I live with him) and I try to be as low-maintenance as I possibly can be.
I just needed to regurgitate that out. Thanks for putting up with it for those who read it.