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[KagomJack]

I'm not sure where to begin. I went on a day-long date with a guy I know who is from NIU. I have a major crush on him. I'm kinda really wanting to get with him, but he's still going through a few things. But we have chemistry. I don't really want to get with him for the physical contact (ya know what I mean by that). I want to get with him for the companionship, to be there for him, to be with him. He's constantly on my mind and I really don't seem to care about that. I've felt this way, but to a much lesser extent, with John. But I don't know what it is that draws me so much to this guy. I see his imperfections, but because they are there, I think he's perfect. *sighs happily* Anything anyone wants to say, comment, maybe help me figure out why I feel this way.

[Grav]

I don't know how to help right now (thinking about it in the back of my head, maybe reply more later) but what's NIU?

[KagomJack]

NIU = Northern Illinois University. It's about an hour-hour and a half away from me.

[Grav]

Don't you think it's bad to get into a relationship like that? (Distance, and aren't you in High School?)

How did you two meet

[KagomJack]

Actually, we both agreed to go slow about it. We're not rushing into a relationship. We originally met through Pounced! and he came down a couple of times for LAFF events.

[Grav]

I'm sorry, what?

[KagomJack]

I met him through Furry events.

[gruesomeBODY]

whats a furry event

[KagomJack]

Bowling, softball, etc. that involves furries hanging out and causing drama.

[Dar_Win]

Explain these things, please?

[Kaneda]

I met him through Furry events.
LOL OMG! Soo classic! I love you Kagom.

[Grav]

Platonically, of course.

[Jessifer]

...Are you sure?

[KagomJack]

I'm hoping Grav's right =o

[KagomJack]

Explain these things, please?
I've explained it somewhat already. http://img388.imageshack.us/img388/3766/fozzie5ta.jpg Just wanted to show you guys what he looks like.

[JRwakebord]

whats a furry event


Who wants to explain to him what a furry is?




And Kagom, good for you. I'm glad you found someone you like being around, especially after the previous drama-filled episodes you've had to deal with.

[KagomJack]

Uh, it's kinda hard to explain. The best thing to do is to look it up on Wikipedia and then ask how much of it I actually am involved with, etc.

[Jessifer]

Blah. Smoker. Major turn off.

[Grav]

Well, he is pretty furry...

[KagomJack]

I can compromise with smokers...that and the second hand smoke can calm me down O.o

[gruesomeBODY]

Who wants to explain to him what a furry is?

so what is it please

He looks nice dude. Good luck and hope he treats u right

[pr0xy]

so what is it please

He looks nice dude. Good luck and hope he treats u right

It is an abnormally hairy person.

[JRwakebord]

Well, technicaly he could be either referring to the slang term for hairy gay men, or to this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom

[KagomJack]

The fandom bit. I'm not into every single aspect about it...I"m rather too vanilla for some furs.

[Kaneda]

Ew. Looks like a deuch(sp?) to me. If I were gay I'd be into very feminine guys. Or maybe thats just cause Im not gay... o_O

[KagomJack]

I'm more into the masculine/less effeminate guys. It fits my personality best.

[osmoses-jones]

For the love of god just die dude.

[JRwakebord]

You first, I insist!

[HandOfHeaven]

Dude, I must agree with you on this.