Confused.

[D3V]

Just take some time to set aside the fact that this is d3v posting.



About a month ago me and my girlfriend broke it off when she accused me of cheating, whatever there was no trust in that relationship and she was too fucking high maintenance. whatever.

Last week I was setup on a blind date type deal with my friends girlfriend's friend (friend of a friend) and it turned out we were pretty well for each other. We went walking around the mall for about 3 hours and just did the whole couple thing. We finally went to go eat some dinner and then went off to the movies.

After a while of watching we started to sit close and got rid of the middle arm, whatever. We ended up making out and it was perfect. I dropped off my friends girlfriend and her at her house, and later that night we talked on the phone and ended up "going out". The next day I went to her hosue and we made food in the morning and made out some more, then we went shopping for some clothes, and I went to work after all of that. The next day she went on a weekend trip with a friend of hers and her mom and sister, she gets back about four days later and puts off talkin' to me. (That's ok I can wait for her).

My friends girlfriend calls her and talks to her, etc , etc. and she went to the doctor when she got back, she mentioned somethign about birth control and (one of the vagina screenings you get at the doctors, I have no fucking clue what they are called). But back to the story, she calls me up and basically says that We need to break up because of her schooling and being gone alot during the summer.

WTF

I seriously must have missed something along the lines, it has been two days without her I feel so shitty inside, I don't know what the fuck to do anymore, I asked her why and she just kept telling me she has all of these personal reasons, I don't know what to do, she did say that we should probably go out in the future, so I'm very lost at this point.

(note: she is a little party'r, weed drinking ....etc (a few harder stuff) ).

Just had to get that off my chest, anybody got some suggestions. I've never been in a position like this before.

[RoboticSilence]

Oh shit. She's definitely pregnant. Just be happy it isn't by you.

[undeadzombieguy]

That, or she got some kind of ovary cancer. (that's what the vagina screenings check for too) Although being pregnant sounds more likely.

[slaynish]

Well I agree with what RS and UZG say but to actually DEAL with your situation;

Since it wasnt really a long relationship, you shouldnt have much of a reason to feel the way you are. You were enchanted with a lovespell, the only thing you can do now is just ignore her. Dont call her, dont be a nusence, just try and kick it. If this doesn't work then try explaining how you feel to another lady friend of yours and I'm almost certain she will comfort you. I did that with a girl Jenna the day lauren broke up with me and now she likes me more than her boyfriend XD. Oh well.

Anyways, just be lucky your not in the hotseat of whoever got her pregnant.

[Sovereign]

It's rather funny. D3V mocked me about my ex, and now it's happening to him.

D3V your ex is worse then mine ever was while we were dating. And you were calling ME a loser at the time. ROFL

Anyway. I'll pretend you're someone else for the rest of this post.

If she is pregnant, then it's best that this breakup happened. Assuming the child isn't yours. Did you ever have sex with her without protection?

If the child is not yours, why would you want to keep together. It's a clear sign that she is irresponsible and cant be in a relationship without cheating. Would you really prefer you walk in on her or hear that she is having sex with some guy after you have been going out for 5 years? As much as it hurts now it would have hurt 10x as much if this happend in the future, when you both have spent more of your lives together.

There are millions upon millions of girls your age in this country. That one wasn't 'the one'. Only a few million to go, right?

I wouldn't get your hopes up about a get together. It's been my expereience that onces a bf / gf break up, 95% of the time the girl moves onto another guy and wont come back to you because shes either tired of you, or wants new things.

If you ever feel that its too much to deal with, talk to a quack. They help. Don't be stubborn and be afraid to ask your parents for help either.

[RoboticSilence]

It couldn't be his because they were (according to his post) only together for about a week.

[D3V]

Nah we didn't have sex, could have but didn't.

I just got informed that she has been pregnant before, which is starting to freak me out realizing how young she is (and had an abortion). I guess this is a breakup i'm just gonna have to move past all of this. But the thing is she even told me she wants us to still be friends and all that shit but I just don't see who the fuck could've gotten her pregnant which pisses me off. I guess time will fix this situation.

[HandOfHeaven]

Timing is a bitch
Good luck D3V.

[RoboticSilence]

Never date a girl who "has been pregnant before". That means she is a total whore and will cheat on you in a flash.

[slaynish]

Have you ever dated a girl that has been pregnant before?

[D3V]

What if they were raped, or something of that circumstance...?

[badboy]

You know she's been pregnant before, could be pregnant again, parties ( into sex and doesn't want to settle, just looking for a good time), and possiblity that she can't hold onto relationship and will likely cheat. Seems like you can do better.

[D3V]

Yeah we've actually went back out last night as friends or whatever and we got along alot better. She's gonna hook me up with a friend of her's so life will be going good soon enough.

We'll be back togetther one day though, I don't know why I feel that way and neither does she, we both feel the same way but right now isn't the time for either of us.